I am 4 months post break up. My ex was cold as ice, was never happy with who I am, and complained. He broke up with me, after eight months of being together.
I recently started dating this guy who contacted me on FB. completely not my type. He is a bit nerdy and I don't love certain things about his look. Having said that I do find myself attracted to him and enjoy the conversation. He treats me AMAZING, like no man ever did.
My problem? I keep searching for defects, thinking how my ex was sexier. I feel like my brain can't accept that relationship can exist without drama and with someone who actually appreciates me for who I am.
What can I do? how can I stop judging this great guy and accept his love?