I'm 22 and mostly career oriented. I don't want children right now, or maybe ever and i'm not ready to commit at all. i've been trying to navigate my options for when I'm ready to settle, which is probably going to be when I'm financially wealthy and independent and in my thirties.

The red Pill has a lot of warning to women not to wait too long to find a long term partner because of the wall or something, which had worried me for a while until I realized I can just become a step mom.

I feel like it's the best option out there. If you get married too soon you either have to go for older men (who I do not personally find attractive, I prefer the look of men my age). Or you have to settle for someone your age who's not financially independent yet, and the risks of divorce is really high with couples who get married in their mid twenties.. and I certainly do not want to have kids, sacrifice my career and then feel ensalved or scared for divorce in my thirties because I don't want to become a post wall single mother.

But if I wait, I can just become a very fit, wealthy and childless woman, and eventually marry a high value single father my age who's already financially settled and who is looking to remarry a socially acceptable woman. Most single fathers would rather not go for another single mom. Yet they might struggle to pull younger women who are not ready to play a role in their family life and not everyone wants to raise someone else's kids. I personally don't mind. Having my own kids isn't something that matters to me. I always wanted to adopt or something.

Don't I get everything this way? financial security, family life, options, committment. Ect. Anyways what do you think?