"Why do you not have a girlfriend?", "When will you get a wife?"; tired of relatives bothering you with these questions? There is a simple way to deal with them. Tell them that you haven't met a single woman till now that meets all your standards and requirements. Tell them that you will not settle for anyone who doesn't fulfill all the criteria. Jokes aside, I was pondering upon this question, what would it take for M.G.T.O.W. to consider marriage in a hypothetical world where men are treated fairly in the divorce court. Before we discuss this further, remember that under no circumstances should we apologize for our demands. People will shame you for what you want. They will put labels on you, call you a misogynist for not wanting to date fuglies, single mothers, or what have you. But they are hypocrites. Why is it okay for women to have standards when men aren't allowed to do the same? Be unapologetic for your needs and judgemental when it comes to picking partners. Ask yourself what you truly and genuinely want; otherwise, you won't be satisfied.

Virginity. Most women can get sex whenever they want; whether they enjoy the encounter is a different story. If a woman is promiscuous, she is also likely to be impulsive, with no discipline, no self-control, no self restrain, besides showing signs of addiction, and other similar characteristics. The same reason why fat/obese people are unappealing, as they often have the traits listed above. You must also note that a man has to put in actual effort to get laid, which is why promiscuous men are respected, a double standard created and perpetuated by women. Even if, by some miracle, you find a harlot with discipline, somewhere in your mind, you'll think it is unfair for you to be with her, which will lead to resentment.

Attraction. Don't let anyone feel you sorry for what you find alluring sexually. I know that every man has his image of what an ideal feminine body type is. Thus there is no point in elaborating this further. You won't find me kink-shaming around anyone. Different men find different things attractive, like the face, breasts, buttocks, thighs, midriff, underarms, hair, feet, neck, labia, and the list goes on. Do remember, if you find an older woman attractive, say around thirty or more, in the back of your head, you will think that you don't have many good years left with her current form, which is true in reality as well; rarely will such a relationship be satisfactory.

Personality. Much like the previous point, this one is subjective/relative as well. I discussed in an earlier post why the tradcon lifestyle is inefficient/suboptimal in today's world because of the available technological aids for household chores. However, I am no one to judge you. If you want a submissive lover, then you do you. Many women seem to think that men are intimidated by confident females. No sweetie, there is a difference between being confident and being toxic, arrogant, obnoxious, overbearing, haughty, and a plain ol' bitch; which isn't scary, just disgusting and awful, any person would avoid someone with the above-listed qualities. It is common sense that people, in general, like an individual who is caring, loving, joyful, cheerful, respectful, humble, polite, and understanding.

I would love to hear your thoughts on this and your version of an ideal partner.

Posted in collocation to my previous posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/ofk1av/discussing_women/, https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/oeyqjo/shaming_tactics/, https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/ohkd73/remember/, https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/okw49k/tradcons/, https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/oivl0t/the_wall/, https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/og82qm/cult/.