Woman I met off escort site wants to go to the gym with her

John-Crimson · 2021-06-04T03:44:49+00:00

You already know what to do here my man. She’s an escort; keep it that way.

30203forever · 2021-06-04T03:49:28+00:00

Are you doing a remake of "Pretty Woman" or something?

Ody_ssey · 2021-06-04T04:47:26+00:00

She can't be an escort for life. Someone has to serve her so she can settle down. She is as nice as single mothers seeking a partner.

I mean out of all her other clients she asked me.

You were not in dating competition with her other clients.

pyepcie · 2021-06-04T08:14:10+00:00

Stop overthinking and just go to the gym. Clear your mind of all expectation and let this experience unfold without any cognitive bias on your part. This is just a moment that two human beings will share together at a gym. Nothing more.

atotalfabrication · 2021-06-04T17:35:28+00:00

Is she going to pay for your company this time then?

Squiddy-the-wise · 2021-06-04T19:06:58+00:00

Meh, i dated strippers before. Would never get into a relationship with one.

But they are honestly fun as hell to be friends with. They give no fuks and are less uptight

AquaPiranha · 2021-06-04T13:48:22+00:00

She belongs to the streets.

xm791 · 2021-06-04T05:35:43+00:00

Make sure that this is not a tactic to make you spend more money on her. Otherwise i would accept that offer. Sexual attraction during training can actually increase Testosteron and lead to more muscle growth.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-06-04T11:57:12+00:00

you could start getting free sex from her but then it goes back to the old joke "free sex anit to free"

Resco809 · 2021-06-04T20:44:44+00:00

Ok, let's get one thing clear right away, you shouldn't be trying to weasel free sex out of this arrangement. Regardless of whether or not you go to the gym, the only way you "keep it business" is if money changes hands every time you're intimate. The minute you two are intimate without financial recompense you're officially in a relationship.

It's certainly possible to be in a friends-with-benefits arrangement with a stripper (or escort for that matter) that doesn't go past the FWB zone, but it's unlikely that she'll want to transition to that. Generally, that only happens when you meet a girl elsewhere and later find out what she does for a living-- she's already tagged you as a customer.

On that note, her attempt to escalate the relationship is kind of a big deal. So it's reasonable to assume that if you reject her she might sour, and what was once great sex with a hottie can turn into vaguely adequate sex with a woman that resents you. To clarify, if you tell her you want to "keep it business" you're telling her that you only see her as meat, and she should only see you as a paycheck. That can all be true, and you can both know it, but the moment you say it out loud there is no going back. Neither of you will ever be able to pretend that isn't the case again.

I'm not saying that you should blindly agree to this and any future proposals, but maybe you should just go to the gym with her and let it be that. Don't assume, and don't overthink it. If she continues to escalate (dinners, movies, meeting friends), then you can just remind her that you're not looking for a relationship with her or with anyone else. That's the best, least confrontational way to put the breaks on her. If she's not taking no for an answer at that point then it may be time to look for another escort. But don't worry about that now, for now just go to the gym. Of course, this is under the following assumptions:

-- Ya'll two just happen to go to the same gym, and you both have paid memberships. If not, she may be trying to get you to pay for her gym membership.

-- Ya'll two just happen to go to the gym around the same time. If not it may be an inconvenience. Which isn't a big deal, but its worth discussing.

-- She's not trying to get you to "train" her or whatever. Fuck that.

-- Ya'll two just happen to go to the gym around the same time. If not it may be an inconvenience. This isn't a big deal, but its worth discussing.e a long-term thing then its reasonable for her to pay for her to spot you for gas-- good luck getting any money from a hoe lol

Maximum_Afternoon · 2021-06-04T16:42:34+00:00

Oh, this one is easy, just ask "How much do you deadlift?"

If it's not at least 2 plates/side, "We wouldn't be a good match at the gym."

If it's "Which one is deadlift again?" then just laugh and tell her to roll over. 🤣

Don't let 'em steal your gains!

Crafty-Tackle · 2021-06-04T14:11:05+00:00

I do not think that would be a brilliant idea. Maybe you can pull it off, but I would end up meeting a coworker or neighbor at the gym with her.

BloodMoonWillows · 2021-06-04T20:18:14+00:00

She probably just needs a gym buddy and she vibes with you and thats probably all it is. Maybe she wants something more, but even then this is an escort. Even if you were to get into something are you ok with her not leaving that life behind in place of a relationship with you?

mnomoto · 2021-06-05T10:40:49+00:00

It’s a manipulation technique. Don’t take the bait.

The_Besticles · 2021-06-05T10:17:33+00:00

Hey man it’s simple, you are under no pressure to do anything you don’t wanna. Gym buddies that fuck can stay gym buddies that fuck. You may be worried about succumbing to the pretty woman conundrum but let’s be real, that movie was a plot only pre-grunge era cocaine could manifest, its unrealistic and the characters are stupidly unbelievable. You know what to look out for, you’re the kind of dude that would rather hire hookers than try milking the dating game let alone play within it straightforwardly. You will probably be fine and it eliminates some legal risk. It’s not a crime to fuck your friend who just happens to be a prostitute. Also, you could maybe finesse your way into her giving you a cut since (insert bs reason here) y’know lots of pimps indulge in their wares. Stay up bro, life is hard, enjoy it when possible.

gorilla_blanco · 2021-06-04T23:09:29+00:00

Been down this road... strippers, porn stars, nurses, and escorts have so much crazy in their life it’s unbearable. Legal troubles follow all of them and somehow... they are all cool with the cops. This is such a bad idea it’s not even funny, Stress and drama follow them and are their currency and I fucking LOVED strippers in my 20s, would go to the club once a week and bump into them on industry nights in Scottsdale on Sundays, smashed a few but the moment you saw their actual bedrooms/living situations/personal lives shit was a nightmare of broken crazy...

RUN!!! An escort should be nothing more than a massage therapist with a ridiculous amount of baggage.

WhatstheThunty · 2021-06-04T22:55:10+00:00

I say give it a go. Live life man! Just set boundaries, that’s crucial

Independent_Mud_7688 · 2021-06-06T11:13:48+00:00

Let us know how it all pans out.... Worst case scenario : get yourself some good sex

KUL-DANK · 2021-06-06T06:51:41+00:00

keep the stds away from yourself

darkdavinci91 · 2021-06-04T16:54:50+00:00

You’re not the only one.

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-06-05T04:36:16+00:00

You can't turn a ho into a housewife. That seems to apply here in a pretty literal way.

[deleted] · 2021-06-05T04:15:30+00:00

That relationship is over now. Go no contact. Trust me.

daniellederek · 2021-06-04T22:16:03+00:00

$10 says she has minimum 5 betas she has no current use for hassling her at the gym. She just wants to use you to knock them back into scramble mode to offer what she feels she deserves from them. Unless she asks you to come home after its just a chaperone situation.

Luisd858 · 2021-06-04T21:26:13+00:00

Just go workout

Title	Woman I met off escort site wants to go to the gym with her
Author	bandofhawkpippin
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Comments	52
Date	June 4, 2021 3:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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