You'll be hard pressed to find a woman in our modern society that genuinely wants to listen to your story to understand you and your pain. It's like finding a needle in a haystack. That type of woman is probably not on social media or dating apps flaunting herself and is living a modest, wholesome life and is likely to be cautious around men or people in general. Good luck finding that. Most women care about clout, money, and good sex. If you cant give that and out compete every man she won't stay or at the very least put on the facade that she actually gives a shit about who you are as a person. The whole game makes you want to give up on romance all together and just GYOW or play the game with all the manipulative tactics and superficial charm. No man with integrity would choose the latter. It's a frustrating state of affairs we live in. Stay strong.