I’m looking to talk to some guys who are attracted to men and women. I’ve had a long and complicated history with my sexuality, and I think talking to someone with shared experiences would be really enlightening.

I’m bisexual. I don’t date women because I view heteronormative relationships as oppressive for both people. I don’t have sex with women because, honestly in comparison, the sex culture among men is more fulfilling, and it I’m not risking pregnancy or false rape accusations.

The only times I’ve ever been seriously sexually assaulted are by women who think them doing whatever they want to my body is harmless because I want it, and that seriously turned me off sexually/intimately from women for a while, and now I’m where I am today, where I’m just not interested in sex or relationships with women despite finding them attractive and pleasant as people. I just find the forced relationship structure to be overwhelmingly awful. I want real equality in my relationships.

Any bi guys relate?