I'll try to keep this short.

Have been in a LTR with this girl for 2 years. I love her and care for her deeply. Personalities click, have interests and friends outside the relationship, sex is awesome and regular. She likes being dominated in bed and I like being dominant. She never enjoyed sex before me and never orgasmed before me whereas now she orgasms all over me, so I'm definitely doing something right.

Recently she has started asking me to be "more romantic" in bed. Specifically she wants me to "say sweet things" during sex. Normally I call her my filthy little slut bitch during sex and she loooves it. I suspect this is a classic case of she THINKS she wants me to say "sweet things" but she REALLY wants Chad and Chad would never do that.

I have tried saying romantic things during sex but honestly it turns me off so fast. It makes me feel like a weiner beta boy and makes me feel limp. It always comes out so contrived and makes me feel unattractive because its so inauthentic. Feminism has convinced her that I'm just scared of sharing my feelings because I'm programmed to feel like a bitch for it and am scared of being called a bitch for it (possibly true to some degree).

I want to keep giving her the thunder cock she craves, and am nervous that if I adopt this beta trait in bed at her request she will significantly lose attraction for me. Only Billy Beta says shit like "baby I can't imagine life without you" while balls deep. I should mention that she only requested I do this "sometimes, not every time", so there is some wiggle room.

What do?