LTR likes every single one of a guy's instagram posts.

vandaalen · 2017-01-09T22:03:13+00:00

You don't ever mention stuff like that. You are showing that you care and that it gets to you and she will use it in the future to get to you.

The only legit answer is: dread and more dread.

lietruth · 2017-01-09T22:05:18+00:00

Breaking news: Women find other men attractive.

Don't let this get in your head. Do not confront her. Do not mention it. do not try and set a boundary.

But I'm 90% sure it's a guy she told me about that she hooked up with before I met her.

Then watch her behaviour on this.

haveagoodlaugh · 2017-01-09T22:24:38+00:00

this ship has been sinking and you've just now realized it

prep the life rafts

aka acquire plates

statlearn · 2017-01-09T22:58:25+00:00

[ayylma0]

JvSOUL · 2017-01-10T00:31:18+00:00

Lmao you've already dug yourself a HOLE by mentioning it to her and getting a little jealous/Insecure.

THE REALITY of the situation is that you want her to think of what she's doing as "Bad". You Want her to "Morally" change what she's doing because it's wrong, bad, dangerous and because she has to value trust/morals/ etc... BUT what is actually going on in her head is this "Ooooh he's actually getting jealous, he says it's wrong to like this guy's pics but it's actually making me want him more". Look Women DO NOT GIVE A SHOT ABOUT Morals/Trust/Values because they are opportunistic. She sees "Dangerous, wrong, Bad" as EXCITING, COOL, HOT. Women fantasize about Shit like this all the time.

Wallace68LeMay · 2017-01-10T01:25:26+00:00

Buttslam her & ghost.

Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth · 2017-01-10T00:14:20+00:00

Create fake chick account. Like all Instagram guy's pictures and catfish him. Talk shit to your girlfriend as catfish chick telling her to leave her man's cock alone while demeaning her looks. Profit.

PM_Your_8008s · 2017-01-10T02:51:18+00:00

There's no way to win that one. Either stop letting it bother you or break up with her

statlearn · 2017-01-09T22:21:41+00:00

Misstep #3 - reading this abortion of a comment.

Surfincloud9 · 2017-01-09T22:50:23+00:00

Don't show that you care like that. Fuck, all of my friends on instagram are all girls and most were plates at one time. My girl doesn't care that my feed is just hot girl after hot girl. The relationships sucks right now though and the only reason she is sticking around is because the sex is good and my SMV is high

[deleted] · 2017-01-09T23:26:07+00:00

You can't mention something like this because it will make you seem insecure and that you are spying on her.

However, it is really shitty behavior, especially if she doesn't do this type of liking with many other people.

It's like if I noticed a LTR commenting on everything a guy did on facebook but she doesn't do that within anyone else. It's a bad sign.

lionofthejungle · 2017-01-10T04:24:49+00:00

Many of the posters are suggesting that you don't show that you care.

I want to elaborate on this point - it's done between the two of you. You may continue to fuck her, but she is no longer LTR material. That kind of behavior is disrespectful to you, and as a man full of self-respect, you don't accept it.

Don't make a big stink about it - either plate her or leave her. The choice is yours.

lordvoltano · 2017-01-10T05:35:11+00:00

The damage is done.

She is disrespectful to you. You could casually ask her about the guy's instagram handle, but don't mention about her liking his pics. Study her reactions. If she lies about not knowing him, then just dump her. If she tells the truth, just dump her. If she begs for mercy and starts sucking your cock, then cum in her mouth and relegate her to plate status.

Most of the time she will come crawling back. But she's just a plate you spin now.

joedevice · 2017-01-10T10:49:15+00:00

How do you even know that she's doing this? You need to care less OP.

roseillus · 2017-01-10T01:30:31+00:00

You don't really care for her but you notice her liking all a guys pics?

Whiteout- · 2017-01-10T02:53:03+00:00

Honestly it isn't a big deal. Lots of social media centered gals will scroll through their feed and like every single post their thumbs can reach indiscriminately. Don't read so much into it, that you blow up on her for liking somebody's photos. That'll seem needy and like you care too much. It's good to be aware, though.

Title	LTR likes every single one of a guy's instagram posts.
Author	statlearn
Upvotes	10
Comments	33
Date	January 9, 2017 9:57 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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