https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4mCVS20gj_8

It's amazing how similar, nay, identical human behavior is across cultures. Strip away the façade of culture and this video could have been shot in the USA, Europe, Australia, Russia, India, or any modern developed country.

The epiphany phase comes after hitting the wall, and her father has to tell her to lower her standards because high-status men don't want her. The parents just want grandchildren. The career means nothing. Still she expects someone who makes more money than her and has high status. And this is all happening in China, where the male:female ratio greatly favors women because of the one-child policy and couples aborting female children.