25 [m] single forever

LonelyBobcat · 2020-05-19T05:24:36+00:00

A lot of people struggle with dating then decide that they won't date in order to feel a sense of control over the situation, they turn it in to a choice not to date after many failures so they don't feel like they are going to keep being rejected. That way if anyone asks they can say 'i choose not to date', and it feels better than saying 'no girl has ever returned my feelings'.

Some people are a bit in the middle, and you have to do some internal reflection to figure out which one it really is. It is okay to be the person who was rejected and can't get a date, and its okay to give up on the concept of dating because of it, as long as you can find yourself being happy without it. You just need to be honest with yourself about the motives otherwise you spend your whole life justifying the things outside of your control to pretend that they are.

You become the kind of person who doesn't have a job then pretends its a choice, that you're living that free hippie lifestyle when the truth is you kept getting fired and not hired.

ZlayerXZ · 2020-05-19T06:59:19+00:00

When I see couples and people in relationships, I can’t help but feel disgusted at how pathetic they are, specially the “men side” of it, you’re seeing the world through a fake veil that had been pull onto your eyes, I’ve been in relationships, none of what you think you’re missing is actually real, do you want to know what those “apparent” butterflies really are? That’s the dark side of the dual mating strategy, the most low betrayal of all, that’s man silent desperation, never forget that in this world things that are painted as “alluring” are generally “luring” you into a trap. Be unapologetic to bullshit brother.

DonMelbourne · 2020-05-19T11:31:22+00:00

Try the PUA subs like r/theredpill, they offer advice on how to get a girlfriend. MGTOW might not be the right place for you at this time. Best of luck!

CuriousIncel2 · 2020-05-19T08:45:20+00:00

If you believe that relationships are wonderful and will make you happy, you need to go with it. Choosing to act in opposition to your beliefs will only make you unhappy, bitter and resentful.

I desperately hope you find the rosy picture you're looking for, but the men here have realised that "love" is just a fairytale, snake oil sold to young men and women to progress society.

If at some point, you give up your belief in love then maybe we can help you find alternate avenues of "happiness" (personally I believe this "happiness" also to be snake oil)

unmasteredman · 2020-05-19T14:43:13+00:00

Also looking at your post history...jesus, vishnu, and yoda...don't put women on a mental pedestal. they won't bring you fulfillment. romanticism will make you subservient. Treat a woman like a star, and she'll treat you like a fan. Be subservient and she'll treat you like a slave.

Impossible-asset · 2020-05-21T12:43:14+00:00

Comments locked: this sub is not a place for men who want to get laid but cant. Its for men who choose to walk away from women because they are more trouble than they are worth. If youre looking for an incel sub, youll need to look elsewhere. Thank you.

Title	25 [m] single forever
Author	balixxe
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	May 19, 2020 5:15 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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