Bluepillers have a big ego.

lordofthejelly · 2013-11-20T00:45:17+00:00

The Blue Pill is really an amalgamation of several states of mind, any one of which can be called upon to serve the feminine imperative.

Self-loathing, relative to women. "Her heart is pure and innocent while mine is sick dark and evil." Especially prevalent among Christian blue-pillers, I've found.
Viewing women as somehow inferior. It's been said that a woman's greatest strength is her facade of weakness. Or as you put it:

She says something you disagree with and you throw away your own views and accept hers because you disagreeing with her will surely mean she will be heartbroken and want to commit suicide.
Propagating the notion that what I (as a man) think women find attractive is actually what women find attractive, which insures that I will stay solidly beta, friend-zoned, providing, and orbiting for the foreseeable future. Or as you say:

Firstly by complimenting women and thinking it would get you laid. Think about all the lads out there who gives out compliments like their life depends on it. Just because you complimented a woman doesn't mean she is going to sleep with you. Secondly by being emotional. Just because you told her you love her doesn't mean she now wants to suck your cock. This is sign two of a big ego. Thinking that if a girl knows how much you think about her daily she is going to want to fuck you because you are so special.

Who do you think propagates the notion that complementing women, telling them you love them, and spending 40% of your paycheck on them are what they want?

The answer: other women. Women collectively butter up the ego of blue-pilled men (with words, not sex) because it benefits the collective hugely in the long run.

And to hear /u/girlwriteswhat talk, women have a far greater in-group bias than men do...essentially, their collective beats the hell out our collective.

TheeRyanGrey · 2013-11-20T00:42:44+00:00

What he meant was Blue Pillers have Egos that don't match their actions; they are facades, ego in the form of male hamstering.

RedPill men have massive egos because of our successes and because we actually believe our own bullshit

Pushnikov · 2013-11-19T23:18:46+00:00

I must politely disagree, I think your assessment is incorrect.

Blue-pillers are Co-Narcissistic. It's not "ego-centric" on them, it's projected onto the women. So, yes, there is a sense of inflated ego - but it is in fact the ego of the women that they are projecting that upon.

http://www.alanrappoport.com/pdf/Co-Narcissism%20Article.pdf

Children of narcissists tend to feel overly responsible for other people. They tend to assume that others’ needs are similar to those of their parents, and feel compelled to meet those needs by responding in the required manner. They tend to be unaware of their own feelings, needs, and experience, and fade into the background in relationships.

Excerpt 2

The image I often keep in mind, and share with my patients regarding narcissism, is that the narcissist needs to be in the spotlight, and the co-narcissist serves as the audience. The narcissist is on stage, performing, and needing attention, appreciation, support, praise, reassurance, and encouragement, and the co-narcissist’s role is to provide these things. Co-narcissists are approved of and rewarded when they perform well in their role, but, otherwise, they are corrected and punished.

Perhaps we can use this very informative guide to co-narcissism to help "correct" some blue-pillers?

TRPinitiate · 2013-11-20T00:30:47+00:00

Ego isn't really relative to blue/red pill behaviour IMO you're going down the wrong thought path. I know tonnes of humble blue pill betas and egotistical RP folks. I fail to see any true correlation.

[deleted] · 2013-11-20T01:21:51+00:00

This comic illustrates this RP vs BP point very well

isthatyourdaughter · 2013-11-20T02:43:58+00:00

This is still being framed as "women are great, so I must be the asshole." Fem-centrism.

NO. You were not attractive to women? That doesn't somehow make you a POS.

"Just because you told her you love her doesn't mean she now wants to suck your cock."

My friend, wanting her to gobble your knob is the sanest, most reasonable desire in the world. The problem you had was that you used the wrong approach. Don't buy into this dumb femcunt garbage that wanting to fuck women makes you a bad guy.

"Beta game" isn't bad because it's somehow morally wrong. It's bad because it does not work. I read fresh variations to the same argument you are making every other day, and it drives me nuts. Nice guys are not assholes for trying to fuck women. Every guy on earth who isn't gay tries to fuck women.

The real problem is very simple, and made apparent when I rephrase what you wrote:

"Thinking that if a guy knows how much you think about him daily he is going to want to marry you because you are so special."

You see? The problem wasn't having a "huge ego", the problem was having a feminized ego, and trying to apply feminine strategy. You did what you knew, it didn't work, but now you know better, and that's all there is to it. So quit beating yourself up, that's something else best left to useless cunts. Just keep improving yourself. Do what works.

Edit: This probably sounds like a MGTOW rant, but it's not. I like women just fine, but it is what it is. Al Bundy style.

musicvita25 · 2013-11-20T11:10:35+00:00

Ive seen a lot of guys who get girls and thought were red pill, BETARIZE within 5 minutes of meeting a "nicer girl"

My dream is to find a red pill woman. A woman that understands the femosphere is the biggest load of shit, can see bullshit.

Basically a hot dude with a cunt.

kzwrp · 2013-11-19T22:51:30+00:00

Your logic is flawed, my ego increased 9000% since I found this subreddit ...

_Reticent_ · 2013-11-20T10:35:55+00:00

We think that our ego, the guiding voice in our head is us, but I say it isn't, it just masquerades as us and, if we let it, will get us to do what protects us from the most harm and discomfort. It's the gate-keeper of our world view.

BP men have a lot to lose because their ego allows them to rationalise and understand their actions in the context of what they think or believe will be a result of them. It's the generator of their own hamstermatic.

It takes a strong man to disregard their ego, go against the grain and challenge their world-view, and it's never easy. I remember my first experiences with TRP when my view of women was changed forever; it was a hard walk down that road, and it's forever changed me, but like I've said before you can blame the situation we're in (society) or blame yourself (by understanding your actions within society) and change the behaviors and outcomes of the one you choose. Think it was in 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' that said "remove yourself from a negative situation, don't expect the situation to change". Well, we can remove ourself but, as I keep saying, it's not an easy or pleasant transition.

BP men cannot do this because they have a lot of comfort to lose, and/or haven't taken all paths, except that one lonely jaunt left to them.

Title	Bluepillers have a big ego.
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