A Question from a Non-MGTOW

Tenth_10 · 2020-01-25T13:25:34+00:00

A lot of people claiming high and loud they are MGTOW are bitter people pretending in order to hide the fact that they are basically incels.

A real MGTOW is at peace with his lifestyle. He don't have the need to brag about it, belittle others because of it, and won't spit his hate on women.

There are many posts on this subs showing exactly what is a real MGTOW : Just a peaceful dude enjoying his life, weither it's a workout, a bbq, an evening on his porch and so on.

Hope that helps.

CuriousIncel2 · 2020-01-25T13:59:56+00:00

I'll be honest, and you can hate me for it. When I see my friends being controlled by their wives, having to fight tooth and nail to do anything that they want for themselves, yes I feel sorry for them and happy for myself that I don't have that set of problems in my life.

Then I get back home and wish I had a wife and kids who would welcome me with a hug, and tell me about their day over a nice dinner. And I feel sorry for myself. Then I slap myself and realize that's just a fantasy. I let out a sigh and proceed to make myself a cup of tea.

At the end of the day, it's about each individual choosing what outcome he wants, from a set of bad choices.

lonewolfcatchesfire · 2020-01-25T14:05:57+00:00

I am no better than anyone because I am not in competition with anyone. I go my own way. I would be happy for anyone to go their own way however they see fit. It’s their life. May they enjoy it because it doesn’t last as much as they think it does. But I don’t speak for anyone else by my own person. Responds my vary.

DangZagnut · 2020-01-25T14:00:59+00:00

Sure, you do get a superiority complex.

Hell I get it myself, you can spend so many years winning at life and not tend to think that way, so you attack others for being stupid. And I’m 100% guilty of that.

Why? You just see people making massively fucked up decisions that you didn’t make, and then see them try and fail completely. After awhile the sympathy goes away, since time after time after time you try and show others a different path; so many people keep doing stupid shit over and over.

At some point, because I’m evil, you just start mocking them.

My mother commented on that last time I had dinner with her, that I’m a jokester and comedian, and use it to “hide my true emotions” or opinions or some shit. That I’m always on 11.

Which is true, when I make fun of some simp, or someone who does idiotic things due to the culture or religion they grew up in without their consent, it’s not out of hate, it’s because it’s so very sad, and when you’re powerless to help them, well, making fun of things is always there so I’ll be there. Sometimes people will PM me and say they appreciated my jokes or tongue-in-cheek sardonic expression. Or thank me for dropping red pills into my rants.

So maybe one has to hurt people who fuck up, to save someone who hasn’t.

Well, what’s important is I justified my insanity for no reason. That’s what I get for being hungover this morning and reading your post.

I_waterboard_cats · 2020-01-25T14:23:53+00:00

No I don't, MGTOW tends to attract people who've felt wronged by society, expectations, and relationships. They have a healing process that is filled with toxicity and are blinded by their insecurities while they slowly heal.

At the end of it, most people just start focusing on their lives and agenda and drown out the rest; not because it's inferior to us, but rather unrelated to our personal goals and vision. And we are completely fine with women, we have mothers and sisters and women friends

Skellephant · 2020-01-25T14:01:07+00:00

They're just living free. You'd be pretty stoked on life if you thought you found the loophole for happiness too.

Impossible-asset · 2020-01-25T14:59:27+00:00

No I am not "better" than you. I just am more comfortable and happy in my life without marriage. Never wanted that lifestyle for myself, and after being in a few relationships, dont want those either because I am less happy when I'm in one.

Anyone who says "I'm better than you because I'm mgtow and you're not" is kindof, well, stupid.

Now, that said, anyone who simply denies the reality that marriage and relationships carry with it inherent dangers and it's all sunshine and roses is equally stupid.

Am I better than you because I'm mgtow? No. But I also dont expose myself to the risk of divorce rape, false sexual harrassment / domestic violence claims, or put myself at emotional risk as well. If you know all those things are risks you take and choose to go for it anyway, then hey, informed consent wins the day.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2020-01-25T14:29:17+00:00

I don't see myself being better than anyone (well, lazy people are on the bottom, IMO). I do see my life as living a better life than some people, though, but that's based on my gauge. I couldn't live having someone trying to control me, but that's because I make decisions that impact my life positively, so I don't need a mommy.

You will find a lot of people on their high horses in all aspects of life: You have to get married to be validated as a real man/woman; you live too sinfully; you don't enjoy life enough; etc. You'll come across them in every facet of life, and you can't please everyone. Just keep living life how you want, man.

ZeusTheSeductivEagle · 2020-01-25T14:37:21+00:00

Its reactionary. Society looks down on single men. Especially as you get older. "Like where is your female chaperon?" Alot if not most blue pill men also link there selfworth to there relationship. It's not about your decision to stay but you being part of the problem and having a lack of brother hood.

rquasius · 2020-01-25T14:48:06+00:00

That's a simplistic statement. You could say that about a lot of other areas. I've met people who thought they were better than others because their "vegan" or "feminist" or have a token friend of another race to prove their not racist. I could go on.

Everyone judges all MGTOW by the statements of some. But you have to remember, their are men here going through different stages of life, and MGTOW. So with themselves they evolve, could be bitterness, then pride, self improvement, or they want to share the benefits with others, then they settle in (into MGTOW).

MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2020-01-25T14:51:41+00:00

I’m better than I was yesterday so yeah I do have a superiority complex

Blissbynature · 2020-01-25T14:58:15+00:00

No, I don't. I'm just glad to be free.

GTOH4U · 2020-01-25T14:59:59+00:00

It's nothing to do with being better, it's just a different path. I've seen successful relationships and thought lucky them, I've seem completely failures and though unlucky them.

Basically it's more about mindset. I dont suffer jealousy and I like seeing people succeed. I live and let live. Personally I only think men with stable mindsets are the ones that can truly go mgtow and enjoy it.

Anyone saying they're better hasn't truly left the plantation as they are still looking over their shoulder and trying to tell themselves that they made the right decision because they're not completely sure.

Title	A Question from a Non-MGTOW
Author	connor_the_metalhead
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Comments	14
Date	January 25, 2020 1:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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