Young new mgtow

Impossible-asset · 2020-01-09T15:41:43+00:00

If you are a young man and in a university setting, my advice to you is this:

Focus on your studies. Dont be afraid to ask questions if you dont understand something. Ask for guidance from your professors often.
Socialize responsibly. This is a point where you can network and find mentors in your chosen profession. Volunteer to do intern work and do the best you can. Actually applying what you're learning at the same time you are learning it will be of immense value to you, and your mentors will often be able to steer you into a good entry level position to build on that.
Dont chase women. Forget about them at this point in your life. It's difficult to do because your biology is currently going batshit crazy in the other direction, but tending to yourself and your studies will have better long term benefits than chasing some tail will.
Dont neglect your physical health. Hit that gym or track or yoga mat or hiking trail. Stay physically fit it's important for your overall health and happiness.
Have fun being young. Take time out for yourself to do things you enjoy. Once the studying is done, you've gotten your exercise, relax a bit.
Stay away from the booze and drugs and frat party bullshit. It's a waste of your time and energy.

That's about all I got for you buddy.

KING_CPB · 2020-01-09T15:31:25+00:00

Always you first and then maybe dating very carefully. Never spend too much time and money on women. Not a good investment.

RT-AC66U · 2020-01-09T15:22:55+00:00

Welcome. Start saving now.

Acceptancehunter · 2020-01-09T16:26:45+00:00

To be honest alot of MGTOWs are satisfied to be mgtow because they have had women and then decided its not worth it. think you need a small bit of experience first. Make zero investment in them but just get one gf first at least. but don't take her seriously, don't treat depend or invest in her in anyway,

30203forever · 2020-01-09T15:42:54+00:00

I suggest /r/leanFIRE. Set a goal for financial independence by the age of 40 and stick to it. Personally, I would not abandon my financial independence in exchange for anything.

asianduckpinoydog · 2020-01-09T18:18:38+00:00

Think about women after 30. Your 20s are important years you should invest in education or trade training. Life will be much easier after that. Go monk mode. Don't worry you aren't missing anything.

CRGRO · 2020-01-10T00:35:33+00:00

Advice on the lifestyle....

I ve never had a relationship in 20 years , but it was so difficult dealing with Now I am in university and I don't want to think about women and relationship

First things first...you're not going to be able to stop thinking about it.

You can't not think about wanting them...it's biology
If you try "I don't want to think about it" you'll just end up thinking about it and then feeling defeated because "you couldn't do what you wanted to do" and you "thought about it" - double whammy...

So, the solution is to not beat yourself up for wanting it or thinking about it. If you find a situation where you can even develop a physical relationship, then go for it. If it gets to homebase, wrap up.

You don't want to think about staying away...that's a waste of time...

You want to think about doing other more productive things with your time...and if they come to you...indulge...but not to the point that it affects what you think and do.

Here's a hierarchical list of how it should be for you here on out.

You (make your happiness paramount)
Your major and schoolwork (pick a major that will guarantee you over six figures).
Your family (if you have one and have a good relationship with them)
Your male friends (the ones that you hang around are the ones that also want their own happiness paramount - to this note, never let one convince you their happiness is more important than yours...friends come and go. Especially college friends)

If you end up meeting a girl and want to keep her around...never give her precedence over those four. You can give her a spot if you want...but she's gonna be at most the 5th most important thing in your life.

CarlCarlton · 2020-01-09T19:37:57+00:00

Join a student project at your university. It will allow you to invest your free time in awesome things that can be added to your resume, and you'll make new friends that could evolve into business partners in the future.

Your grades may suffer a bit depending on how much time you dedicate to these projects, however the experience and camaraderie are totally worth it. If you're in engineering, I suggest the SAE (racing) or IREC (rocketry) team.

BitsAndBobs304 · 2020-01-09T20:29:47+00:00

look up Tom Leykis on youtube, he's the dad we never had :P

avtarius · 2020-01-10T04:19:49+00:00

You won't know what to avoid if you don't know what bad ones are.

Also, everything is a relationship, you have a relationship with yourself too.

No I don't understand you, there are too many variables in every person's life to consider. Now here's the kicker, if you don't understand yourself, how do you help others understand you ?

The only thing you can do for the self that I can sort of summarise :

Listen a lot, speak to get a response, not just to be heard.
Develop, maintain and improve on the capability to learn from others' mistakes so you can adapt.
Always make decisions towards self progression, create a mental checklist to help with this if necessary.
You attract what you are, so always try to be a better version of yourself every day to attract something higher.

Title	Young new mgtow
Author	rene_99
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	January 9, 2020 2:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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