No hatred here just years of disappointment, frustration and distrust. At some point I just decided I wasn't going to use my time to chase after women or continually pursue them when it seemed like sooner or later things just don't go anywhere. Other than marriage I'll never say never. However, I am done with approaching or pursuing women. If they want to pick me up fine but I seriously doubt that will happen with anyone I would be interested in. So that's about it. My life is about survival anyway both physical and mental and I don't feel I can do that if I were to pursue a serious relationship with a woman. Based on past experiences(what else can I go on)I don't see my see myself in a situation where I'm in a serious relationship with a woman without sacrificing my values or who I am. I hope that wasn't too negative. Again though I'm not angry or bitter just realistic. Thanks for listening.