Any of you have disappointing families?

GlassCommunication · 2019-10-12T21:33:02+00:00

yeah. but the way i see it i have 2 options.

fix my family
go my own way

801735 · 2019-10-12T23:51:56+00:00

Yup, all of you has a disappointing family. Because you expect. No expectations, no disappointments, dear.

Just. Be.

ValhallaBoundBoy · 2019-10-13T01:46:20+00:00

My parents were monsters. What was interesting though was that when my mother wasn't present suddenly my dad wasn't unbearable. He didn't yell, he didn't get upset, we all just took care of ourselves. If we did something out of line he had no problem putting us back in it, but it wasn't like when my mother was around where he'd come home every day and yell at us for not doing chores properly (even if we did them perfectly).

Mother was definitely the worst. Faked having a stalker the year our dad left us to try and get him back. Traumatized the hell out of me to walk into my home and see our back door open and my mothers under garments thrown all around the house.

At the end of the day I'm just me and on my own now. I don't talk to anyone from my nuclear family, just some distant uncles and aunts.

lord_dark_hobnob · 2019-10-13T07:42:13+00:00

I used to be disappointed, then I realized that my family was dysfunctional due to personality disorders that had run for generations.
I've lost my attachment to them and don't have any particular feelings about family anymore because I can't fix family.
Going no contact may have changed them but I had to fix me first and find a way of enjoying life without them.

ExItGuy · 2019-10-13T21:31:34+00:00

My problem was my parents practiced serious favoritism towards my sister. When my sister and I had a disagreement they'd always side with her. It wasn't until years later when she turned on them they finally started treating me better. Sis wasn't happy when our mother died and she left almost everything, including her condo and car, to me.

Growing up, as I got older, I began to believe one day the way they let Sis get away with everything and always get her own way would blow up in their faces and when it did, I enjoyed every minute of it.

DashingWolf · 2019-10-15T17:05:41+00:00

Mom & Dad divorced when two yrs old. Older bro by two years went with Dad, I with Mom. Mom remarried another simp and had little 1/2 bro when I was four. For 12 years I was the other child, while baby bro got to go to Disneyland, extra toys, etc. I got the majority of chores, atleast all outside ones, some beatings, after all I wasn't my stepdads child, definitely noticed that after him and Mom split up due to her fucking the neighbor, which she married later. For 12 years I called him Dad, respected and never heard from him again after that. The neighbor, like my little bro was blonde & blue eyes. So at the end of 8th grade, Mom's 2nd divorce year, my mom sent me to live with Bio dad and full B bro, probably because she knew my lil brother would be easier to get simp home wrecker # 3 invested. I have dark Mediterranean features. First day with my Bio dad, instead of fishing or taking me to restuarant, which I thought he would since he told me he wanted me in Georgia with my B bro on the phone, hr bitched about my mom and me and put me on the a roof putting up shingles during a 105 degree summer. He is contractor, so he was making money drinking beer, while I was doing his job at 14 yrs old. I was my dads slave labor, not talking about chores, but straight up man work that most men can't/won't do.
Older brother got 3 cars because he kept crashing them, one of the cars that was my decease grandmas was suppose to be mine when I turn 16, but went to B bro. Both my Bio dad and B bro were pyschos, who I never knew what would set them off. The only saving grace was I was faster than both. Both my Dad and Mom came from single mother homes, so there you go.

beware_the_syllogism · 2019-10-18T14:53:42+00:00

My dad was a total simp to the stereotypical career Western women he married after her first husband died. He was early 20s, she almost 30. Her goal in life is now to be at church or binge on TV. She was also highly abusive and some.of her tactics were beating me with a metal rod (hollow metal tube a cannister vacuum cleaner) and making me drink tobasco sauce as possible punishment. My dad was perfectly ok with this. He thinks he's a big shot because he had an illustrious military career. He's now simping and cucking himself with an Asian single mommy with five kids. My sister is the favorite and got all the good shit paid for by him: large house in a good area, education at a prestigious college, a Lexus, etc. She's a third wave feminist and gets away with it because she is very intelligent and many males find her hot. My dad cannot help but be Captain save a ho. He no shit handed out his number at the grocery store to the cashiers "in case they need something" and apparently didn't have a problem being the designated driver as well as atm for them. It's bizarre.

Me? Still doing manual labor at almost 40. Don't make much. PTSD. A series of mental health issues (non violent, thankfully) I know we don't like to play the blame game here but the parental units seriously fucked up and fucked me up. I assume I won't get over it, possibly brain damage at some point due to beatings.

Title	Any of you have disappointing families?
Author	throwd444444
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	October 12, 2019 7:19 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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