When was the last time you had to forgive someone for closure despite it hurting?

CoquetoLives · 2019-04-30T01:34:40+00:00

November. Worst loss of my life.

My final heartbreak.

Just grieve it til I'm done grieving, then move on

BigArabCock100 · 2019-04-30T02:08:52+00:00

I see all things as part of an experience. Makes moving on, no regrets and forgiveness very fast and easy.

Impossible-asset · 2019-04-30T03:17:49+00:00

Never.

Not once, ever.

Sarah in 3rd grade took my chocolate chip cookie out of my Voltron lunchpail without asking and left me the oatmeal raisin. ...FUCK sarah.

Last boss accused me of stealing his "leg day" workout DVD. At the time I weighed over 300 lbs and had a diet of pizza, taco bell, and beer. I was about as interested in his workout DVD as I was in a raw kale and carob smoothie.

Never forgive. Never forget. Never wear a scar without knowing who gave it to you and when. Then wear those scars like armor.

mechgaige · 2019-04-30T05:39:22+00:00

What the hell is this question? Has MGTOW become a morning show? Closure is walking away, with no apologies. Forgiveness for what?

steelyknife1122 · 2019-04-30T06:28:15+00:00

I have to forgive everyday because some wounds will never heal. Sometimes though, I forget to forgive and get mad.

GoldCoastWanderer · 2019-04-30T08:55:01+00:00

Depends how you define "forgive". For me, forgiveness just means I've given up trying to get revenge or square the ledger on someone I think has wronged me in some way. I forgive people everyday - the guy who cuts me off in traffic, the guy who pushes all the buttons on the elevator, etc.

Interestingly, the act of forgiveness usually helps rather than hurts me. There was a girl at work I had a crush on some years ago who gave me a lot of mixed messages. I think that was the one that hurt the most.

lord_dark_hobnob · 2019-04-30T09:02:32+00:00

"Closure" is pop-psychology.

treble-n-bass · 2019-05-01T12:16:58+00:00

I don't "forgive for closure." I don't "turn the other cheek" anymore either. If somebody fucks me, I fuck them back if it's convenient for me to do so. If I can't fuck them back, I move on with my life, but I always remember that cunt and how I got fucked - and make sure to never get fucked that way again.

Title	When was the last time you had to forgive someone for closure despite it hurting?
Author	POPPOPCAP93
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	April 30, 2019 12:31 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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