I'll try to keep this concise. Basically Monday night I met a cute girl in the club, she approached me to tell me she liked my tattoos, and after some good flowing conversation we ended up getting a drink together at the bar and making out plus feeling each other up. Her friends came by to tell her they were leaving but she stayed by my side. After a few more tequila shots she suggested going to the bathroom after some heavy PDA so we went to the cleaner's closet in an attempt to have sex, the cleaning lady walked in and it was an awkward experience. Then she walked me home. She wouldn't come up to my apartment but we talked about getting sushi later this week and she took an uber cab home.
So fast-forward two days and we have plans via text to get sushi Thursday night, she seems eager but then Wednesday night she texts me "Sorry something came up, I can't tomorrow but how about Friday night?" I'm not into flakes but since she offered to reschedule I let it pass and agreed. So today I sent her a simple text message at 3pm today asking her if she's still in the mood for sushi and colorful drinks later, and by 8pm I still had no response and she hadn't even looked at the text message in Whatsapp even though it signified it had reached her phone. So I realized I was being flaked on AGAIN and I sent the message "Sorry I can't make it anymore tonight,maybe some other day :(".
Basically my reasoning was that I want to cancel before she has the chance to send me some fake apology and excuse about how she was "busy". I don't want to seem like some chump who was just sitting by the phone all Friday night waiting for a response. I plan on going out tonight anyway to get my mind off her but what do you think her mindset is and how should I proceed if she does respond with the typical b.s. flake excuse? It seems ridiculous to me that a girl who seemed so into me to the point of approaching me first, which almost never happens, could suddenly lose interest.
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