So I started this whole process in the beginning of October last year. It started as an amicable divorce until she told me that should would never give me shared custody because "she can't be without the children for to long". Even after I provided her with scientific evidence that shared custody is best. I have no emotion for her, either way, and am completely over the relationship but it drives me insane that she is being so self centered and narcissistic when it comes to custody. I feel like this whole divorce is just her big ass temper tantrum.