Quick poll to gauge the legitimacy of my frustration

RamzFanz · 2019-11-02T18:51:43+00:00

Aye.

Compounded by her decision that she didn’t need to talk to her doctor and I should just live with it.

Nope.

Boom_wakawaka · 2019-11-02T18:32:16+00:00

I’m not divorced yet but headed there and while we had a lot of issues before kids came along, that’s when the lack of intimacy really got bad and pushed the relationship off a cliff. Seems to be a common problem no one tells you about before you get married. The wedding ring box or dress should have a warning label.

plumhands · 2019-11-03T00:42:54+00:00

I'm in a similar situation and am sticking it out for two reasons. First, the kids. Second, monetarily it would be a mess. Two houses, healthy six figure income, 401k and investment account.

We don't converse unless it has to do with the kids. My work has suffered immensely. I'm gaining weight. It's been quite a roller coaster year.

I need to snap out of this shit.

BadDad01234 · 2019-11-02T22:08:28+00:00

Lack of intimacy is a valid reason for anyone to leave. Better to leave first than to have an affair. Life is short. Don't spend it in a prison

2019-11-03T14:20:06+00:00

Yes.

SkeptiCynical · 2019-11-07T15:46:46+00:00

Was conned into marrying an asexual sociopath who convinced me she couldn't conceive. Bam - honeymoon baby.

6 awful years with the most godawful, wretched piece of shit I've ever had the misfortune to know, much less cohabitate with.

TryToHelpPeople · 2019-11-03T01:49:08+00:00

Have a chat with the good people over on r/deadbedrooms just for more info.

Title	Quick poll to gauge the legitimacy of my frustration
Author	nick_papagiorgio08
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	November 2, 2019 4:59 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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