I’ve posted on here a few times in the past couple of weeks. Myself and my STBXW have just started divorce proceedings. Yesterday tensions reach an all time high. I’m still very raw as it is her who wants the divorce, whereas she has already moved on in her mind. I lay awake most of last night thinking of how I couldn’t take much more and that I was going to move out of the family home at the weekend. I even phoned and told her of my intentions in the morning. She thought that it would be the best for everyone including my 8 year old son. As the day went on and after talking to people I thought “what are you thinking about”, so I promptly phoned her to tell her that I had changed my mind and was staying. I told her to move my step daughter (who is 18) out of the spare room and she could share the master bedroom with my STBXW. She wasn’t best pleased and hung up on me. To my amazement when I got home she had moved all my stuff to the spare room and my step daughters stuff to the main bedroom. She said that she had spoken to her sister and now understands why I’ve been acting crazy and to put the boot on the other foot (if it had been her who was told she was no longer loved or wanted). She even cooked and we all sat down for dinner and had a normal conversation. She said she doesn’t want any more fighting and we need to live amicably until all is finalised for the sake of our 8 year old son. I now feel a little uneasy as this was totally unexpected.