I’ve posted on here before, as going through the early stages of a divorce. My wife wants out, not me, she only told me 11 days ago. We are still living under the same roof albeit separate lives. I am going through every emotion at the moment, beating myself up for the stuff and I did and didn’t do. This morning she left her phone on the side and I couldn’t resist the temptation to see if she had changed the access code. To my surprise she hadn’t, so I took a peek. I was horrified to see she had been whatsapping some random guy as if she was looking to make arrangements to meet. Later on reflection she was talking with an overseas serviceman. I couldn’t control my anger and confronted her. She responded by saying I had no right to go through her phone and that any chance of being amicable now is out the window. I apologised and took my son out for the day to give her chance to cool down. On return I apologised again and she said that she accepted my apology and there wasn’t really anything in the messages. I hope she is sincere. I’m planning on buying her out of the house, but these things take time and we have only just started the legal proceedings. I’m not sure if she really has cooled, or whether a nasty shock awaits me either way I couldn’t feel any worse than I do now right now. Has anyone else had a similar experience??