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From what I see, women do a far better job of leveraging their network of friends than guys do. And they chatter amongst each other offering words encouragement, which we as the SO would likely cringe at: you deserve better, he was an ass, you’ve done the right thing, etc. and they will do this even if she cut off your arm with an axe. “It happens”. “He made you”. But it must be recognized that these affirmations are helpful to the listener in moving on. Very. And they do coffee, and identify interests and gossip. It’s healthy. Very healthy.
We just work and fund the coffee. It’s not healthy. Not at all healthy.
Next, go on vacation somewhere. And take a girl. Women love to go on vacation and travel. Offer to pay for whatever you can afford. Getting to know someone new will take your mind off the old.
Workout much? If not, get into it. Does wonders. Meditation is helpful too. Very helpful.
Hang in, man.
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