Today I found out my stbx is seeing somebody else. I know you guys probably understand what I'm going through. I'm done and initiated this but its still such a weird feeling.

Background: marriage was awful but we did love each other as human beings. It would never work but we tried. Dissolved because I finally said enough. She fought but it was too late. A MONTH later she is seeing somebody and it hurts. I say it that way because I didn't expect it to be so short of a time period. I support her moving on but it doesn't feel great. We get along and I hope we keep getting along.

Sorry guys it's the night of so I'm just throwing it out there. Drinking some beers and listening to some sad songs to commemorate.

UPDATE: I'm writing this as I get ready to leave Costa Rica. I came down with some friends and had the best trip of my life. I even got the nerve to ask a girl to coffee when I get home. She said yes. Just talking to somebody would be great and she's going through a similar situation. I still talk to the stbx and we still get along very well. I hope she's happy and once we can sell our house in February, I'm prepared to let her go completely. Things are fine but there are still moments that bring out the emotions.