Got my gf to admit she has cheated on x-husband, should I continue to date her or move on?

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-02-10T19:40:23+00:00

That's a pretty big striking blood red flag there. The fact you even have to ask is a bit worrisome.

MattyAnon · 2017-02-10T19:55:06+00:00

She'll cheat on you sooner or later.

What you do with that information is up to you.

Poptart318 · 2017-02-10T20:08:20+00:00

It's only your turn so be aware it might happen to you sooner or later. Keep your frame up and be ready to move on, depending on whether how much you like her just next her now instead of a heartbreak later on. Cheating in a past relationship is a red flag, especially if it was a marriage.

Varelix · 2017-02-10T19:40:35+00:00

If she cheated on her ex she can/will cheat on you. It's up to you if you want to take the risk or not

nastynickdr · 2017-02-10T20:58:43+00:00

First thing, you are LTRing a divorced woman when theres plenty out there that never married. Hope shes not a single mom and post wall.

Second thing, she broke her marriage vow by sitting on anothers man dick. Yeah very bad, and she will most likely do the same to you.

Those two things would be enough reason for me to never upgrade a woman to LTR. But its your life, so up to you. A good question you could make her is why she cheated. If she doesnt take full responsability for it, saying she screwed up badly and she felt very sorry and bad for it and it was all her fault, then its a bigger red flag. "I cheated but It was his fault because he didnt xxxx / he did yyyyy". Well, guess what, when she cheats on you it will be also your fault because you didnt xxx / did yyyyy.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-02-11T18:35:19+00:00

Massive red flag. Demote her to plate status.

the-bum-hammer · 2017-02-10T19:45:28+00:00

Cheaters cheat, regardless of excuse.

Hunter2isit · 2017-02-10T21:47:28+00:00

Massive red flag. You should never get attached in general, here 3x so. How old is she? Wall?

ecosci · 2017-02-12T00:48:24+00:00

She was cheating as you were typing this post that guy most have been beta and she is still carrying guilt and needs to hear that its ok your human honey he didnt take care of your needs its his fault but we all know what a slutty whore does.

abdada · 2017-02-10T19:40:16+00:00

Most women "cheat" just to branch swing because they're afraid of being single.

So cheating to branch swing is a natural part of hypergamy.

Cheating with every Chad every other weekend for 3 years of marriage is different.

More important: why the fuck are you talking about her ex-relationships and old behaviors? That's ridiculous.

Title	Got my gf to admit she has cheated on x-husband, should I continue to date her or move on?
Author	anon_post_here
Upvotes	6
Comments	20
Date	February 10, 2017 7:37 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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