Pretty much I got a hook up pregnant I told her I was Not ready to be a father but if she ended up keeping the child I would not be a absent father and will be in the child’s life fast forward either months we are about five weeks away from due date and since I am not dating her or living with her because she is psycho that she does not want me involved at all in our sons life I told her that I will stay the night for the first two weeks of my leave every night and after I go back to work we will find a schedule that works, but she wants me there 24 seven sleeping at her place.