There is a growing number of sites and publications recognizing that a certain sub is egregiously poisonous and toxic. I actually enjoyed the second link alot because it actually seemed extremely objective and bipartisan in it's breakdown. The Verge and Vice are pretty decent online publications, I thought it was interesting to see.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/akdm4a/female-dating-strategy-relationship-advice

https://www.theverge.com/2020/2/14/21137852/reddit-female-dating-advice-strategy-women-rulebook-memes