Me and my LTR always argue about not hanging out with each other. She refuses to come to my apartment ( We live in the SAME complex). I insist on hanging out here because I have Netflix and a big TV, and she doesn't even have a TV in her room. I'd rather not look at the wall all night.

So tonight, I ask her to hangout and she says she's doing homework and to come to her house. I try to maintain frame and say just bring it to my house, I'll help you with it. She refuses so I start ignoring her. She calls me trying to argue, saying things like "I'm not dying to hangout with you" and shit like that.I just tell her I'm not gonna argue and I'm tired of hearing her mouth and hang up.

WTF do I do? Been dating for over 2 years, rather not break up over something petty but we never even hangout anymore. Or fuck, which goes hand in hand with hanging out

I dread game by working out religiously and having a life away from her - through the week I'm too busy w school/gym to hangout. Should I begin to ignore her and be "too busy" for her since she doesn't want to put in any effort?

Summary: LTR rarely hangs out, root of problem is she refuses to come to my apartment (same complex as her)