we all know that back then women weren't allowed to vote, work, and there was more domestic violence without consequences also they were forced to stay in kitchens

but why do they ignore or deny that men also dealt will lots of forms of oppression,

1- the draft

men as young as 18 were drafted against their will to go die in wars, in ww2 alone 50 million men died because of it, and if you think the draft ended, just wait till a new war starts, well all saw the 202 ww3 memes about the draft, and it was pretty much accepted by most people

2- men were expected to do extremely hard physical jobs, and tbh I would like to stay in a kitchen rather than going to war and die, also men back then were forced to be providers and the problem still continues today as men are looked at as moving ATMs, meanwhile if you tell a woman to go to the kitchen you will be the devil

there are many other problems that men dealt with and still deal with now, like not being able to talk about our emotions without being looked at as less of a man and many other things i don't want to mention since this will be too long

my second point is that women weren't oppressed as much as feminists say ( yes it was bad for voting and female careers ) but feminists make it sound like men HATED women and beaten them for the smallest reasons, I was recommended this video, and tbh its doesn't seem like this was the case https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZhfnLoEOTyk

tbh, to me, it seemed like both genders suffered equally ( or men had it worse honestly ) and I still don't know why feminists tell young women that men oppressed, hated, abused women, its just so toxic and it is making a gap between the two genders.