Turning a tinder conversation into a tinder date?

bruh_my_jays · 2017-02-24T03:50:36+00:00

A.B.C.

Always Be Closing

When texting/tindering, every message you send should serve at least one of the following purposes:

a) Logistical (get phone number, schedule date)

b) Firing up her hamster (inspire curiosity, establish dread/dominance)

c) Sexting/Flirting (build attraction, Alpha Fucks)

Avoid having "interesting conversation" over text, she has plenty of beta orbiters who do that already. Be direct.

Bruno-OS · 2017-02-24T03:23:37+00:00

Have you tried saying "Let's do X at Y time"...?

DadOnDabs · 2017-02-24T07:17:10+00:00

I have a full post on tinder game if you want to read it but it comes down to the 6 Message Rule. She already has interest in you if you're attractive. There is a reason they are there (some for sex, some for validation). Either way use the 6 message rule. You have 6 messages to get her number or set up a date. Every message should have a goal (like the ABC reply in this thread). Either build attraction, mystery, or get a number. Keeps her wanting more. You can go over 6 messages but anymore than 8 or 9 is too much. If she's interested and down to meet you can find out in 6 messages.

Hecticchow · 2017-02-24T08:17:38+00:00

Small talk on tinder is a waste of time.

BusterVadge · 2017-02-24T14:58:17+00:00

Too much conversation on Tinder will guarantee you no date. Save the "getting to know you" stuff for the physical date.

Tiway22 · 2017-02-24T03:30:34+00:00

Dude have you tried asking them out

dr_warlock · 2017-02-24T21:04:09+00:00

You obviously didn't read the sidebar. "Everything Omlala ever wrote". Online Dating Prophet Omlalahamed has the Tinder answers you seek. Don't contact him, read his posts.

CuntyMcFagNuts69 · 2017-02-25T04:34:03+00:00

It's easy. This is how I do it. I list I play music in my bio, most of the time within the first three messages they'll ask about my music. I say something like "I don't play for women on the first date, maybe the third". They'll make a comment about getting to the third date so they can hear me play. I set up a first date right there and leave it at that

Hardly takes more than 10 messages total

281threethreeoh8004 · 2017-02-24T14:54:16+00:00

Some girls are there for the validation, some girls are there to get free meals, and some are there to actually get out and do shit.

I'm trying to get a phone number in less than 10 total messages if I can and then making plans. I had one girl try to ask a million questions over text and I'm like hold up, I'm not trying to read your autobiography. Let's meet up Saturday at X place at Y time and have a drink.

Just be direct about what you want and they'll more times than not follow your lead. There's already some attraction there if you matched, so it's really not that difficult. If she doesn't bite and doesn't offer another option then talk to the next one.

Title	Turning a tinder conversation into a tinder date?
Author	NSStringImprove
Upvotes	9
Comments	14
Date	February 24, 2017 3:21 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5vv6jx/turning_a_tinder_conversation_into_a_tinder_date/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/turning-a-tinder-conversation-into-a-tinder-date.83143 https://theredarchive.com/post/83143

Comments