Is a girl who puts out on the first date non-relationship material?

Armourhead · 2017-03-02T14:13:48+00:00

Until you two have the "talk" you are both officially not exclusive. If she doesn't realize this then she's deluding herself. I'd say to keep enjoying what's happening with you two. Keep spinning her as a plate. Just because shes not LTR material doesn't mean you can't still have fun with her.

asktrpthrow123 · 2017-03-02T15:02:37+00:00

Why the hell are you looking at her as a potential LTR when you've only been on one date?

harkrank · 2017-03-02T19:18:00+00:00

A relationship can only work out if the woman is head over heels attracted to the man.
A woman who is head over heals attracted to a man cannot resist jumping his bones.
The only way she could possibly resist sex is if they remained in a public situation where sex is impossible.

No, sex on the first date doesn't disqualify a relationship. Love at first sight is the only way a woman can love a man.

With that said, she can show restrain by keeping dates in public, but 2 dates before sex at maximum and only if you live in a conservative society, otherwise move on.

BestSC86 · 2017-03-02T18:59:50+00:00

Boy are you going to get a bunch of contradictory advice to this question because it is one of most egregious TRP contradictory conundrums.

The advice is going to depend into which camp the TRPer falls.

It comes down to trying to fulfill two widely divergent maxims....

*Don't mess with chicks that don't fuck on 1st or 2nd date....HARD NEXT.

*Don't LTR chicks that fuck on the 1st or 2nd date....HARD NEXT.

So it is a self-fulling maxim. TRPers are dictated to hard next any girl whom doesn't fuck in the first two dates which sets them up to only be in relationships with girls who routinely fuck on those dates. Then because so many of those relationships implode because the girls really are sluts who will fuck any dude who asks her out, it leads to the 2nd maxim....don't LTR any girl whom fucks early.

Of course, there is the 3rd camp....don't have any relationship except fucking with any girl...but that is a whole other level.

quicklogaccount · 2017-03-02T19:12:21+00:00

You really think too highly of yourself, don't you?

See her and smash her. Don't give off a possessive vibe, don't ask her about her whereabouts, don't question blatant lies about it either. Women are tough, lots of women fuck you for fun.
I went with the third option there a few times until a girl told me she didn't want a relationship but the fact that I ruled that out made her feel cheap and weird.

As for your question, high n-counts aren't shit to worry about.
High n-counts CAUSE women to be shitty partners, but the problem is women being shitty, not the n-counts. High is relative when it comes to it.
If she's shitty, you are supposed to have the capacity to leave either way. Abundance. And wisdom to prevent yourself from being shamed into staying in a shitty relationship. So, don't worry a lot.

blackedoutfast · 2017-03-02T19:57:30+00:00

bruh, if that's your criteria for "LTR -worthy" you're never gonna find one. some of them might not fuck you on the first date but every single one of them will fuck on the first date with the right guy. might have to be a god-tier celebrity, but you can't make an absolute rule like that.

if you knew exactly which dudes she fucked on the first date and which she didn't, that could be useful, but realistically you'll never get the true facts. but assuming you do magically know every detail of her dating history:

if a girl has fucked a lot of other dudes on the first date but doesn't fuck you, that's a really bad sign. especially if she starts pushing for an LTR quickly. she's not sexually attracted to you but wants LTR = she sees you as a gullible beta bucks and wants your resources. she's just using sex as bait, not because she wants your dick

OTOH if a girl fucks you on the first date but rarely or never fucks other dudes on the first date, that's ideal. she isn't just a slut with low standards, and she is sexually attracted to you enough to be a bad girl. in this situation your alpha fucker game is prolly in point, good job.

poochman · 2017-03-02T16:44:22+00:00

Not necessarily. If she fucks any guy on the first date, she's a slut and not LTR material. However, if she fucks only high value men on the first date (and only high value men at all), then she may be LTR material because her standards are still high. All girls will fuck a Chad quickly if their value is high enough (celebs/athletes).

I'd be more concerned with the type of guys she has fucked in the past rather than how quickly she has fucked them, if you really want to evaluate her for an LTR. Are they low or high value men? This is why partner count is often discussed on TRP. If she has a high count, she most likely has fucked many low value men.

Kalidane · 2017-03-02T22:35:24+00:00

Maybe. It isn't a sufficient test to determine the answer to your question.

Never go overt with communication. Sidebar.

Title	Is a girl who puts out on the first date non-relationship material?
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Date	March 2, 2017 1:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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