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hol up, they actually think about that?

Gonnothen · 2020-11-30T15:00:38+00:00

Crosspost "How often, when chatting with men online do you say to yourself “hm, when is he going to try and turn this sexual?”" from...

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November 30, 2020

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Title	hol up, they actually think about that?
Author	Gonnothen
Upvotes	29
Comments	71
Date	November 30, 2020 3:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/k3xcpv/hol_up_they_actually_think_about_that/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/hol-up-they-actually-think-about-that.839404 https://theredarchive.com/post/839404

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You see you dont understand my point. We men biologicly have a much higher need for sex than women if we cant agree there lets just agree to disagree overall.

But what we men find its that its impossible to have a proper procedure to approach this sex needs because of all the as i said obtuse, obscure cryuptic and inconsistent behaviour of women in this subject. So at that point we say fuck it i dont care anymore. Why cant women just be crystal clear about their sexual intentions right form the get go so we can move on to other subjects instead of playing with us like lab rats in a maze trying to get the sex cheese you have to admit theres some responsability thare as well.

Im not using anybody by making a conversation sexual thats just intelectually dishonest of you to say that imo.

I would love to approach people instead of sex, all it takes is women to be clear about it right from the get go. Is that really so much to ask for?

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You see you dont understand my point. We men biologicly have a much higher need for sex than women if we cant agree there lets just agree to disagree overall.

I understand that. Testosterone is different to estrogen so it's inevitable that there are differences. It's more conplex than that but for simplicity's sake, lets go with that for now. Some people need higher calorie intake. That doesn't mean I'm gonna feed them just because they sat at my table with their mouth open and a bib on.

Why cant women just be crystal clear about their sexual intentions right form the get go

We often are. You're telling me you approach women just for sex and they wanna use you? Go figure.

Im not using anybody by making a conversation sexual thats just intelectually dishonest of you to say that imo.

No, you're not and I never said that so don't put words into my mouth, please. By making it clear you're only interested in sex and not the person, you show that you're being selfish. Why would anyone fuck someone who is selfish? It's likely to be bad sex.

It's really simple, get to know a person before trying to fuck them. If that feels dishonest, that's because you don't give a shit about them. So be honest and deal with them noticing you only care about getting your dick wet and rejecting you until you find someone who doesn't care.

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Well, I think most women are raised to be that way due to slut shaming.

For example, in high school I asked my date out to homecoming. When I told my parents about it, they were pissed and said (more like screamed) a woman is never to initiate it. I assume most women are raised this way. Luckily, I don’t listen to half the shit they say because they’re weirdly conservative and perpetuate rape culture (like blaming me for getting catcalled by middle aged men when I was underage when I was just wearing a hoodie and jeans like a normal 15 year old. Also, saying a woman who was repeatedly raped and eventually murdered on her college campus was at fault because she didn’t tell anyone she was being sexually assaulted hmmm I wonder why she didn’t feel comfortable speaking up, huh?).

I never listened to half the shit they say because their brains on backwards. If I’m on Tinder and dtf, I say that up front. I don’t see a point in playing coy and I don’t care if some dumbass calls me a slut for it. They can eat my ass.

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