I just discovered this subreddit a few days ago. I don't consider myself a rpw as there are some things I don't agree with, but there are a few similarities.With that said, I've been going through quite a bit lately and I'd like some advice, opinions, whatever!

A bit of a back story- My fiance was born to more "traditional parents". His mom did all the household things (cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc) and from what he tells me, she rarely spoke up to his dad.

I, on the other hand, did not come from a house hold like that. I was raised to be more independent, get an education and career so I could support myself, and never settle for a man or need to depend on one. Needless to say I sometimes come off strong with men.

With all of that said! At the job I have now, I make more than my fiance and he has never had a problem with that (to my knowledge). Recently, his terminal illness has come out of remission and due to some unfortunate events, he is no longer receiving disability. We are getting by on one income- my income.

I can't help but think he feels emasculated if that makes sense? He's been acting a bit depressed lately but he says that's due to his illness and not knowing if he will get better. He sometimes says he feels useless, and it breaks my heart because I don't think he is! How can I help him through this? I can I remind him that he is very much needed?