I’m really sick of people saying grown women are being taken advantage of if their partner is older than them.

Lethn · 2020-06-17T16:27:53+00:00

They're apologists for female paedophiles and predators, that's how I view them, they would never say the shit they do about women if the genders were flipped and men were doing it. You call them out on that and yes, not giving a fuck about how they view you is how you win these arguments because they're relying on people getting defensive, the last thing they expect is for somebody to go at them hard over an issue like this.

McFeely_Smackup · 2020-06-17T18:48:03+00:00

Well, if you pay attention, it's not the younger women throwing shade on this kind of pairing... it's older women who have squandered their peak sexual marketability years.

Lion_amongst_gods · 2020-06-17T19:06:43+00:00

70 year old millionaire marries/ dates a 30 year old woman. Dies in a few months. The woman gets his estate.

I'd say it's the men who are taken advantage of, in that case. But like always, the feminist lobby makes every issue a women's issue.

IAmTheBasicModel · 2020-06-17T18:38:21+00:00

I should qualify I am a gay man.

i’ve chased some ass in the 10-15 year younger bracket, but its always a waste of time - the youngin’s have their choice of the litter, if I am not their choice, there isn’t any amount of coercion/control that will change that.

flip side is I had plenty of guys 10-15 years younger than me come sniffing around for dick and chasing after me for the “daddy experience”.

my point is, in the gay community, the older/younger pairings are almost always the younger one’s idea and is with their explicit consent. even if the older guy resists the younger because of the age gap, eventually the older gives in because the younger keeps jamming that poppin’ fresh ass down on the dick.

i suspect its the same with straight women - they know what they’re doing. suggesting a 22 year old female can’t possibly have her own agency in choosing a man 10-20 years her senior is a sexist proliferation of the “women are to silly and naive to make important decisions” troupe.

DiamondDiggler · 2020-06-17T17:52:48+00:00

It's just bunch of spiteful women who are too old to get men.

Ignore them. Men naturally likes younger beautiful girls and no amount of hate from used women will change that.

eldred2 · 2020-06-17T20:00:58+00:00

Just another case of assuming hypo-agency of women and hyper-agency of men. Last I checked when an older man and younger woman choose to date, they are both equally involved in the decision.

carpbasher · 2020-06-18T00:15:02+00:00

Yeah but toyboys are fine

TiredExFeminist · 2020-06-17T18:27:58+00:00

Thank you

thatgirlanya · 2020-06-17T16:43:08+00:00

well I agree but it depends when they started dating. Look at Elvis and his wife. or the 16 year old getting pregnant by a 48 year old.

but for over 18s there are many advantages to going out with someone older in terms of their maturity and you get to feel young all the time no matter how old you get.

biologically men are meant to go for younger partners.

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