I was accused of a rape that never happened... I'm 15

z29v_ · 2020-06-14T06:00:06+00:00

please don't take your own life. you are only a baby. on the news there was this 17 year old that killed himself for the same reason and a year after his death his mum killed herself. now the sister has lost her mother and brother to a girl's lie.

in 3 years time you will be going to university and will never see them again. its a blip.

AlpacaDynasty · 2020-06-14T05:39:19+00:00

Is the accusation being circulated as a rumor at your school, or is she taking legal action? If it's a rumor, you're in a rough position, because there's basically nothing you can do to clear your name. Talk to school administration, your parents, and consider counseling. Getting help is not a sign of weakness, it shows you are strong enough to fight. If there is legal action, the claim will fall apart if you are telling the truth. My heart goes out to you, you will get through this.

APbeg · 2020-06-14T05:20:11+00:00

Make a fake female Facebook account or something and ask her if it is true that you raped her. If you are lucky she will be a dumbass and let "her" know you never really did it. You could use that to prove you didn't rape her.

Toaster_Stroodle_26 · 2020-06-14T06:45:09+00:00

This hurts to read. I honestly hope you get through it. I cant say anything that other commentators havent already said.

z29v_ · 2020-06-14T10:01:25+00:00

Listen, you’re the victim here. Don’t try to protect shit bags that have no respect for you. Let your parents know she lied about you raping her and how upset it’s making you. If it goes to court, even better. Lawyer up. This is defamation and if you have that message of her lying, give it to your lawyer. It’ll teach her a lesson to not lie about stuff like that. Anyways good luck bro and ignore her.

Salamander104 · 2020-06-14T06:19:18+00:00

Call her out on her bullshit lies in front of as many people as possible, tell her to call the police. Surely her bullshit claims and no evidence will do great in court. Try to find as much evidence for yourself as possible. Texts that happened that day, people you interacted with, etc. But if she starts crying I'm sorry to say you might be fucked. But you could always fall on the real shitty but it might work plan and say your gay or impotent. Those options are very fucked up but might work. Also guidance counselors are cool talk to them. Oh and please dont end your life, from one 15 year old to another even my shitty plan is way better than that one. Also what hobbies do you have?

cld8 · 2020-06-14T08:51:30+00:00

First, you need to see a therapist. Please find one immediately. Your school may have one, or your doctor can refer you to one.

Once you get some therapy and are back to a normal mental state, then the next step is to see if you can press charges for slander. This depends on the laws in your state/country. You will need to talk to a laywer about it.

RPDunkleBomb · 2020-06-14T12:04:02+00:00

Take legal action. She has no proof: you have some points on your side. Good luck, we are here for you.

Kirklechoake · 2020-06-14T08:21:32+00:00

Have you tried to talk to teachers at your school? I know during situations like this it can be hard to ask for help but it is the best thing you can do aside from confronting your parents.

maximilant · 2020-06-14T11:43:49+00:00

Hold in there. I've been in a similar situation but less serious. I want this to be short so I'll get to the point. Don't let a lie dictate or have any major bad influence on your life. It might be hard now but that doesn't mean it will always be like this. Till then you will have to carry that weight. Do your thing and don't let pathetic liars take anything more from you.

Ibrokemywrist · 2020-06-14T12:08:34+00:00

Contact the police and tell them what's going on. Ideally, have your parents or a responsible adult do it. If your parents can afford it, hire an attorney.
Save all the messages/voicemails from the girls or any messages from other people that could incriminate them. Install an app on your phone that automatically records all phone calls, it might come in handy in the future.

Book an appointment with your Doctor and again explain what's going on. You can move past this, but having some professional help will make things a lot easier to do so.

Be kind to yourself. I hope you're taking daily steps to look after yourself, a decent diet, drinking plenty of water, hobbies like Yoga and meditation. I can link you some resources to practice if you're interested.

jinladen040 · 2020-06-14T13:35:32+00:00

I would talk to your parents about consulting a lawyer together. If she keeps spreading lies, it could very well ruin your future. So at the least a ceast and desist should be sent to her family.

That will either force her family to get the police involved in which case the truth will quickly come about the false accusation and she could get in trouble. Or she'll drop the accusations.

But you need to take action and stop worrying. So discuss this with your parents and consult a lawyer.

Guimanfredi · 2020-06-14T14:20:01+00:00

I don't even know what to say. (Sorry if I sound like those feminists that say "mAn uP") You can get through it. Just stay focused for some more time and you will win. I would recommend you to try and find a therapist (preferably a man) to help you. Maybe he can even help you convince your friends.

Hannubal · 2020-06-14T07:53:00+00:00

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. At this age, it's difficult to live with people mobbing on you like that. I would say what others have said - get an attorney. Yes, the girl will be hurt, but there are consequences to things that people do. Add to this, she will never be as hurt by you calling out her lies as you have been by them. Society is infinitely more forgiving towards girls than boys.

And I get the sense that you are an empathetic, caring person, and this is why you are worried about hurting her. See this as an opportunity for growth, because even though it is good to have your sense of empathy, you cannot let it get in the way of you taking care of yourself.

However, first and foremost, get your life in order. If you are too riddled by anxiety, drug-addiction and sleeplessness, you will lack the sharpness of mind and emotional strength needed in order to drag yourself out of the mire she has put you into. Start eating healthy, exercise and sleep well. Set up a routine. These things will lower your anxiety immensely, and will make you much more clearheaded. This way, you will be much more able to deal with the difficulties which will come in the following months.

When you feel ready, you can start calling her out on her lies, unless your attorney advises you to do otherwise. Like someone else said, ask her publicly why she never called the police. Point out what a coincidence it is that she started to hang out with those girls as a result of accusing you of rape. However, if you're going to do this, you're going to need to be well prepared. If you let fear take hold of you, people will see that weakness, and use it to pounce on you. So think carefully before confronting her, if you are to do it.

So most importantly, get into shape and fix yourself up, and get an attorney to see what more you could do. And the idea to use a fake account to get her to admit her lies is great. There is a necessity for you to do this, so I have a very difficult time believing that you could be charged for it - a false rape accusation is far worse.

And I know that it might feel like the whole world has turned on you. But these people who hate you make up only a drop in an ocean of people. In a few years, you will be able to move to a completely new place and start over. Until then, make sure that you have dealt with this situation so that it does not come back to haunt you. The most important thing is to never let your anger take you over. Anger will cause you to do something stupid. Start meditating, and learn not to react to agitated emotions.

Trust me, you can deal with this. Good luck to you, man.

feminismIsHateOfMen · 2020-06-14T12:32:07+00:00

Quite simply because we are in a feminist world where men are constantly harassed and discriminated against.

There is nothing you can do when you are accused of rape except change jobs and leave. They have all the power.

However, it would seem that this has not taken place in a legal framework. You can sue her for defamation. That should work especially for a girl this unstable at this age. She will eventually confess, and if you play it cool and everyone knows about the rejection you feel, it will come back on her. However, it must be made public because as a female everything will be done to spare her, while you will be alone. Sue her for defamation and make it a public matter.

Try to avoid any contact with other girls because of the "women are wonderful" effect. This effect affects women 4.5 times more than men. You should also avoid accumulating false accusations.

Because by feminism (contempt for men) other women may accuse you to support the one who originally accused you.

Remember, this is defamation.

The majority of rape charges are... It's a way for a woman to make friends and ruin a man's life with zero effort. All she has to do is tell a lie and everyone believes her.

SarcasticUndead · 2020-06-14T13:51:06+00:00

My god honey im so sorry. Dont tske youre own life. Youre very loved and you will be very missed. Theres billions of people on the world, 10 that hate you dont matter as much as your life.

ApprehensiveMail8 · 2020-06-15T03:00:06+00:00

We believe you and we are worried about you. I don't know what to tell you but stay with us.

CantHaveANormalName · 2020-06-15T11:34:40+00:00

Hey, listen, if you have Discord or something, and you need someone to talk to, feel free to contact me.

jellobowl12345 · 2020-06-16T12:12:10+00:00

Don’t be shy, give us her name 😈

MrHupfDohle · 2020-06-14T14:20:34+00:00

At that point you have nothing to lose. You already tried to take your life. FIGHT! Make it public, tell everybody what happened try every angle. Some may not believe you, others will. Her lies might make her trip. I doubt her details will make sense. Try to take her to court, collect all evidense.

She wont have details that would add up. Details a true rape victim would have. Where is the report about her injuries? When was the rape, what happened, where, ripped cloths? Time? Chances are you got an alibi.

Dont give up and let that human trash ruin your life! I would do anything to get my revenge on a person who would do sth. detestable like that to me.

If she ends up apologizing, do not forgive her. She is a monster for doing that to another person. There is no remorse, no empathy, just pure evil.

Stand up for yourself and fight! This will make you stronger!

TacoGod21b · 2020-06-14T06:06:38+00:00

My advice is take advantage of it when the girls harass you harass them back with things like your next. 2 things will happen they will call your bluff implying they know your innocent and are being cunts because they can (best case scenario) or they go to the admin so if I were you inform admin of what is going on in advance so if they go to admin you have a better chance

Also don’t kill yourself My father always said only pussies and selfish people kill themselves because it isn’t just you who is affected when you die your family will be distraught so consider them before you consider self harm

Neinonionopnn · 2020-06-14T16:09:50+00:00

It's ok, even if you did it's still ok because you're just a child! She must have provoked you or something! and if not she must have deserved it!

And if you didn't, install tor and ask how to hide a dead body on 4chan.onion

!/s!<

Title	I was accused of a rape that never happened... I'm 15
Author	z29v_
Upvotes	183
Comments	91
Date	June 14, 2020 3:10 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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