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She beat you up and you let it happen and didn't take legal action where a woman would have. This is bad enough and it encourages this phenomenon of laisser faire and submission to women.
Now that the blame has been laid, I will give you my opinion.
You are in a difficult situation because, being a woman, she has a huge advantage over you and has the ability to destroy your life.You are the one who has spent time with her and not me, so if you feel like it, try to play it cool and compassionate and gather evidence of her violence (record her confession).
You probably think I'm overreacting by telling you this. But tell yourself that she could do it again, harass you, accuse you of violence and you have no chance of getting away with it.
Browse through this reddit group and you'll see why.
The advice is not to run away from her, you should go to meet her to make sure you've got your back and look good and then leave quietly. If she starts this kind of behaviour again and harasses you, don't threaten her, catch her off guard by launching a legal procedure with the evidence you've collected. Be aware that you need a lot of evidence and that you need to play it right. In the best case for you in this situation she will be judged irresponsible because of her mental health. In the worst case, you will lose your job and your whole life and potentially end up in jail, especially since her family supports her. If you love her, you must stop because it is very important that you do not get trapped in a toxic relationship with such a perverse and nacissistic person.
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