How do you get over the must split bills equally mentality?

purasangria · 2021-08-08T12:38:59+00:00

Please go read the handbook. There is a whole series of posts about this.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-08-08T12:33:12+00:00

"Ah so you would treat me like shit if I am unable to work? You think women who don't pay have to be slaves for men and be abused by them? You sound like such a misogynist! You also do not sound like a family/community man, I find that unattractive."

bioqueen53 · 2021-08-08T12:17:40+00:00

"we can't split childbirth, so we're not splitting bills."

But tbh if a guy splits with me I just wouldn't go on a second date. I wouldn't tell him what he did.

Or (I haven't tried this yet), I would end the date saying that it was so great hanging out as friends. 🤗

fashiong99 · 2021-08-08T12:23:41+00:00

Looking at examples of people that do not! I am lucky enough to have amazing parents that raised me with a very specific mindset but regardless you can find someone to look up to, wether in books or real life, that does not behave 50/50 and you will realise how easy it is ☺️

Title	How do you get over the must split bills equally mentality?
Author	Loonytunes345
Upvotes	39
Comments	4
Date	August 8, 2021 12:43 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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