I've never been much of a bible reader but I do believe in God. I found this verse when someone posted it on Facebook and since then I have used it to check myself at the end of each day and recenter myself when I feel like I am not being the wife that I know I can be. I thought it may help others. All you have to do is replace your name where ever you see the word love.

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[b] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.