We were discussing wether a man is allowed to hit a woman back if she hits him and I decided to ask my sister and mom what they thought and this was my sisters response.Not sure if this counts here but thought I'd share.

mary_metal · 2020-02-26T17:37:24+00:00

It should be people just need to keep their hands to themselves and stop attacking eachother, but yeah if someone starts a fight you have every right to defend yourself no matter what

Hmcvey20 · 2020-02-26T18:46:09+00:00

So if a scrawny 20yro man starts hitting a well built man who knows how to fight, he should just take it because he’s stronger ?

Personally I would do everything I could before I hit a woman, restrain her, leave the situation , try and calm her down but if I can’t do any of that, my well being and safety comes first.

Ghostraider202 · 2020-02-26T18:46:20+00:00

A real woman doesn’t hit a man in the first place.

1426kils · 2020-02-26T17:32:52+00:00

"the man can only fight back if the girl is actually hurting him. If his nose is already broken, kidney already punched, and he is knocked out, then he can hit back."

Rolfey_ · 2020-02-26T17:27:01+00:00

Equal rights, equal lefts.

kfree313 · 2020-02-26T17:29:25+00:00

You didn’t know your female family members were part of the problem as well? They are all on the same team .

TikiT0rch · 2020-02-26T19:10:07+00:00

Why do you have an eggplant emoji in your sisters contact?

voriboos · 2020-02-26T19:13:24+00:00

Feminist assholes, they don't understand that they don't understand. Absolutely agree that there should be no violence against any human being, not only against women. If you hit me, I hit you back and, I'm much stronger than you!

RedditisCANCER999 · 2020-02-26T21:04:31+00:00

OP you have been given a complete gift!!! don't lose it

from this point on you can get your mom and your sister to do all the traditionally female chores/work, and when they say no "you simply say a real women is expected to do these things, you hold me accountable to the standards of a 'real man' i equally hold you to the standards of a real woman"

you just have to not hit a woman and take the bins out and do DIY they have to cook all your food, do all the cleaning and shopping etc.

hold them accountable to their own warped standards.

shivermetimbers68 · 2020-02-26T23:03:17+00:00

As the bigger and stronger of the sexes, men need to show restraint in a physical confrontation

As the smaller and weaker of the sexes, women need to show restraint in a physical confrontation

If either side fails, the smaller and weaker of the sexes is going to get hurt.

It's like that book "All I Really Need To Know, I Learned In Kindegarten"

Keep your hands to yourself! If you cant restrain yourself, be prepared for the cause/effect

armed_samaritan1 · 2020-02-26T17:32:38+00:00

These hands egalitarian

flameguy4500 · 2020-02-27T09:58:29+00:00

A real man doesn't care

Yeah bitch? Well a real woman doesn't leave the kitchen. See how hurtful that shit was?

cnfit · 2020-02-27T15:53:23+00:00

"A real man let's women physically harm him without repercussion."

Anyone who uses phrases like "real man" or "real woman" is the fucking problem.

art_lover82279 · 2020-03-08T23:21:08+00:00

“A real man doesn’t care” so real men don’t have a pain tolerance and the ability to get hurt?😂😂 like wtf

thefocus123 · 2020-02-26T17:56:34+00:00

This debate seems to only exist in the United states....

Noodle_mcgee · 2020-02-27T00:43:34+00:00

Yo wtf, why do you have an eggplant emoji for your sister's contact?!?

ELPAPAPAPA · 2020-02-27T02:45:59+00:00

Lol did you start an argument about that just to post the conversation on this thread?

siiphe · 2020-02-27T18:31:05+00:00

Your rebuttals are good. But, as something you’re wondering about and discussing with people around you, I’ll tell how I handle these situations.

I’ve been given black eyes from so many girlfriends who lost their temper I just tell them, “if you swing on me, I’m not gonna hit you, I’m not gonna hurt you. But I am gonna choke you to sleep. And when you wake up, we can have much calmer discussion about all this.” The look on their faces when they realize I’m dead ass serious. Don’t clobber em, use your superior male strength to control a violent situation.

Call me an asshole, call me whatever you want. I don’t give a fuck lol

NPC808 · 2020-02-28T00:52:19+00:00

nobody says this shit when a small guy starts shit with a big guy and gets knocked out. you can literally boil this down to "I have a pussy and it's an actual shield from consequences"

GmanV357 · 2020-03-01T18:09:52+00:00

SJWs: "all men and women are the same and equal in every single way"

Also SJWs: "HOW COULD YOU HIT A WOMAN YOU PIECE OF SHIT DONT YOU KNOW MEN ARE TO STRONG AND COULD HURT A WOMAN YOU STUPID PIECE OF SHIT"

Also SJWs: "all men are sexist and reinforce sexist anti-female narrative"

Creepydude1010 · 2020-03-01T21:09:02+00:00

We not gonna talk about how there’s an eggplant emoji in his sisters contact name?

Dough_Cookie123 · 2020-02-26T22:57:04+00:00

I’m going to ask the real question here..... why is there an eggplant next to either your mom’s, or your sister’s name lol

ELPAPAPAPA · 2020-02-26T23:16:18+00:00

So who has the eggplant emoji? Mom or sis?

nicodiumus · 2020-02-27T05:35:55+00:00

Don't hit people. That is the solution. If you can't control yourself, you need to go to jail.

OGharambekush · 2020-02-27T13:44:47+00:00

Equal rights equal fights

KneeDeepThought · 2020-02-27T14:56:34+00:00

A "Real Man" seems to only do what's convenient for a woman... according to women.

Olddriverjc · 2020-02-27T15:20:56+00:00

“A real man doesn’t care” haha

Malbek604 · 2020-02-27T22:03:09+00:00

you have detailed discussions with people over text?

-Overdooo- · 2020-02-28T05:51:13+00:00

WHY IS THERE AN EGGPLANT NEXT TO YOUR SISTER'S CONTACT?

creeperdude2006 · 2020-02-28T07:58:31+00:00

I feel like in the name of self defense a punch is always allowed, no matter who it is, if they punched first it's fair game

CommanderKnull · 2020-02-28T13:27:12+00:00

why do ur sis or moms contact contain a eggplant in their name???

ELPAPAPAPA · 2020-02-28T21:49:52+00:00

Right why the actual fuck do you have an eggplant emoji next to your sisters name

InsaneInTheManBrain · 2020-02-29T04:40:25+00:00

The argument is always that the woman is weaker. Well guess what? In any fight between two men, there's always one who is weaker as well. Always. If a 140-pound 5'3 dude approaches a six-foot 200-pound guy and punches him in the face, is the bigger guy supposed to just take it or restrain himself from punching back? Fuck that shit. If a woman hits you, used measured force back.

Gengaritina · 2020-02-29T20:11:00+00:00

if she starts a fight and gets her ass whooped, you didnt abuse her yall fought and she lost

Murricath · 2020-03-01T08:45:35+00:00

Tell your sister Reddit thinks she's a moron.

ebin_benis_ · 2020-03-02T14:42:49+00:00

Men ARE physically stronger than women, but if a woman picks a fight with someone she knows is stronger than her, male or female, she rightly deserves whatever comes next.

SMTTT84 · 2020-03-02T15:25:43+00:00

A real woman wouldn't hit a man.

Biggordie · 2020-03-04T18:23:06+00:00

A man doesn't hit a woman. A female hitting a man is not a woman, so if you hit back, you're still a man.

XSasuken22X · 2020-03-18T06:32:37+00:00

Your folks are dumb. The standard should be, no one puts their hands on anyone. If you do, you get what’s coming to you.

SweetHeaven96 · 2020-02-26T22:22:26+00:00

Logic is a women's Kryptonite

Iconoficons · 2020-02-26T21:24:05+00:00

Watching the view harpies debate on this topic is comedy gold.

wwesean03 · 2020-02-26T21:41:09+00:00

Bro why do you have an eggplant on your sisters name

ThePolarisWarrior · 2020-02-27T03:20:44+00:00

Nobody should hit anyone.

If a woman decided to hit a man, the man has all the right to hit back.

Period.

Blicked33 · 2020-02-27T06:39:45+00:00

Just the fact someone is trying to hurt me should be a reason to rip and tear

usofwhateva_1 · 2020-02-27T09:08:27+00:00

I don’t believe anyone is entitled to hit another person. Self defense, sure. We are born of equal worth, and should aspire to equal opportunity. We are not born with equal capabilities.

MiyegomboBayartsogt · 2020-02-27T11:01:49+00:00

You never hit a woman for the same reason you never hit a small child. Neither are likely to actually cause you physical harm when they attack a man, and neither can take a good sock on the jaw. And like small children, women are emotional and naturally capricious so it's not fair to hold either a child or a woman to adult standards of behavior.

SleepDeprivedUserUK · 2020-02-27T14:02:27+00:00

Take gender out of the equation...

If a person hits another person, then the person can hit back.

NPC808 · 2020-02-28T00:50:37+00:00

just show this to your any potential suitor your sister has

justameesaa · 2020-02-28T11:26:10+00:00

I would never strike a lady. So you had best behave as a lady, cuz otherwise....

Verse-Chorus-Curse · 2020-02-28T23:06:29+00:00

Who is this? Amber Heard?

springsprig · 2020-02-29T04:22:08+00:00

No one should be hitting each other. If some girl is crazy enough to smack a dude, he can walk away or if that's not possible, he can restrain the attacker. There's no reason to punch. I man's punch is way harder than a woman's. It's kinda like when police shot someone instead of restraining them because "it looked like he had a knife". The police obvious have the upper hand be use the worst tool.

TOXICALLYNERFED · 2020-02-29T06:46:10+00:00

Best course of actions in a cotton candy world is nobody raises a fist. Second best in a padded corners world is the man pulls his punches while the girl gets to go gorilla on him, but in the real steel world if you try to fuck up someone, best prepare to be fucked up if you cannot handle the heat or match up.

thats_tough_my_guy · 2020-02-29T13:23:18+00:00

Lmao why does your sister have an eggplant emoji in her name

MayonaiseH0B0 · 2020-03-01T20:22:43+00:00

You made the first mistake. Talking to women from a first world country about equality

MajesticSpaceCat · 2020-03-02T05:12:06+00:00

“A real man doesn’t hit a woman unless the woman is really hurting him.” How about don’t be a dumbass and pick a fight you know you can’t win? How about you get out of a situation instead of continuing to anger the person you know is capable of beating your ass into the dirt the second you cross the line? How about you understand that no one should be attacking anyone to begin with and anyone who resorts to assault in what was just a verbal altercation deserves to be hit back no matter the gender and its sexist to believe otherwise?

DatMagicalPerson · 2020-03-05T11:11:01+00:00

I feel like you were just going here to argue and not actually listen to their opinion, perhaps you believe they are wrong or what not, but it's kinda shitty to just try to force an argument with someone.

mr2jay · 2020-03-07T22:12:44+00:00

Any person using "a real" in an argument is dumb.

You could of just said a real woman would never be disgraceful enough to resort to violence

jmn242 · 2020-03-07T23:29:21+00:00

Wasn't 'no hitting' supposed to be taught to 5 yr olds? Girls don't get a pass, wtf.

Gallowing · 2020-03-08T06:50:37+00:00

By that logic, no man can ever punch a weaker man.

kaczan3 · 2020-03-08T15:47:27+00:00

That argument about men being stronger is complete BS. Id they really thought that, they'd just say: someone stronger can't beat up someone weaker.

And even that's BS, because someone stronger can defend themselves. And if the stronger one is the agressor, what does the strength have to do with anything?

JuicyCockRing · 2020-03-08T23:55:58+00:00

I ain’t going to hit the woman if she isn’t hurting me, I’ll try and stop her. But if she is I’ll keep warning her and if she doesn’t stop that’s when I step in.

Nomadic-Blerd · 2020-03-09T12:43:37+00:00

By that logic, if a skinny dude hits me I shouldn't hit him back.

2020-03-14T10:39:26+00:00

Imagine thinking that every man in the world is stronger than every woman in the world

Piyaniist · 2020-03-14T11:22:28+00:00

Bro, if a somone/anyone hits you intentionally to hurt you, you falchon punch them to the orbit and thanks for coming to my TED talk

2020-03-14T15:16:19+00:00

Why does your sister have an eggplant emoji next to her name

Yellow-Yeezy · 2020-03-16T05:40:32+00:00

If a real man needs to take the hits, then a real woman shouldn’t be arguing and fixing my man’s dinner

grey_scone · 2020-03-16T10:07:02+00:00

A "real man" should run and try and bait her out into a public place bonus points if the police are there

2020-03-17T16:52:47+00:00

A man is entitled to hit back in defense, sure, but it's also not something that I would personally do. I wouldn't judge any man for it, so long as it was justifiable. I just wouldn't. It's a personal decision. Just be aware that the world is filled with judgemental asshats just salivating over the chance to brag about defending the liberal position of one social justice narrative or another. Defending yourself against a woman is going to come at a cost right now in the current social climate. That's just how life is right now. Fairness isn't relevant, unfortunately

Binksm · 2020-03-18T06:46:35+00:00

Men and women need to keep their hands to themselves. If you're going to hit someone... expect the same back.

Nicely_Colored_Cards · 2020-03-18T13:09:11+00:00

I see two big problems: 1) Assuming that men are obviously the stronger ones.

2) “A real man would……”

Bertry · 2020-03-19T05:11:11+00:00

That is so similar to what my mom said

2020-03-22T09:18:18+00:00

Why does your sister have 🍆in her name

SixUK90 · 2020-03-30T14:14:59+00:00

Why does your sister's name have the dick emoji after it?

eric80808 · 2020-03-31T19:18:43+00:00

Equal rights equal fights

Averagebiker21 · 2020-04-01T02:29:16+00:00

So, according to this chick, a punch thrown out of anger by a man can hurt a woman, but if it comes from the woman to the man it just... doesn't? Does the hand become cushiony or something?

Sinburner · 2020-04-04T05:53:20+00:00

Equivalent of saying big bodybuilder can’t hit a 100lb Man because he’s stronger.

MtnDream · 2020-04-13T11:44:11+00:00

your sister the type to think she can hit a man just because she's a woman. if a woman thinks she's weaker and shouldn't be hit, she needs to stay in the kitchen

yakman22 · 2020-04-13T20:04:30+00:00

I hate the fact that women use the phrase "a real man." As manipulation to put up with their bullshit.

2020-04-16T13:40:26+00:00

You hit me you are getting hit. If you dont want me to hit you, then dont hit me. That simple really

meaximuxs · 2020-05-08T15:54:08+00:00

get stronger then

stonethunder944 · 2020-07-27T16:44:32+00:00

A real man waits until they are done and pulls out a 9mm and solves the problem

shadus · 2020-02-27T00:29:29+00:00

I told every woman I dated after high school when we started dating, "I black out when I'm hit, I don't start fights, but I will beat the hell out of anyone who hits me."

Of the 7-8 people I dated, not once did one of them ever throw a punch, slap, or shove.

Honestly, if you're with someone who does that shit, get out, first occurrence. There is nothing else they can do that overrides someone getting violent with you even if you don't get hurt.

RadioSurge · 2020-02-29T04:30:38+00:00

Why is there an eggplant next to your sisters name...

2020-03-12T19:16:31+00:00

Simp

TmfGD · 2020-03-08T09:00:16+00:00

Holy shit this sub is fucking garbage

Redneck-GamingYT · 2020-02-26T18:34:44+00:00

I agree with the person on the left in part. Only time you should ever lay hands on a woman is if she’s hurting at all, and if she’s throwing hands at you and you defend yourself it doesn’t have to be punching you’re physically bigger wrap her up in a hug and go to the ground and hold her there till she calms down as a man you can inflict so much more damage on her. My dad dated a third degree black belt he was not trained in any fight other than he grew up defending him self cause he was smaller than everyone, when he went to break up with her she tried to drop kick him, he just wrapped her up and fell onto the couch with her till she calmed down, now I’m not talking about female body builders that could break your hold I mean anyone of average size. be the bigger man, don’t stoop to their level. Be a John Wayne

Thordaddy77 · 2020-02-26T18:32:18+00:00

This post is incel retardation...

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