This is something directed towards conservatives, which I've never had any sort of real or direct answer to before.

Why do you believe woman's traditional gender roles are more flexible and shouldn't be enforced, while male gender roles should absolutely inherently be enforced either legally or socially (conscription, protecting, providing, etc)?

You think men should be conscripted, but also women should have the right to vote in politics (something which isn't traditionally done).

Feminism has been demanding that women be "freed" from their traditional gender roles for decades now, largely successfully and you've gone along with it, while men are still supposed to follow male gender roles.

You think men should follow every single gender expectation but you sure as hell don't expect women to do the same, in fact, in some assbackwards way you seem to think women not following their role is the fault of men too.