I'm sure I 'm far from the first one to point this out here, but in heterosexual relations, if the man isn't "getting into it" he's got something wrong with him. He must have Erectile Dysfunction. He needs to go to a doctor and start taking medication because a woman isn't turning him on.

But if a guy isn't turning the woman on? His fault too. He must not know how to please a woman. She should leave him so that she can find "a real man" who can satisfy her.

Nope, no double standard here...