I’m terrified of being falsely accused of rape and/or sexual harassment

SarcasticSalmonella · 2019-12-16T00:11:57+00:00

Ironically that recording would be a sex crime

Lethn · 2019-12-16T00:26:33+00:00

I know it might seem paranoid and ridiculous but if it really worries you then simply don't show up to parties filled with strangers plying drinks. The exact same logic can be applied for women as well except for some reason keeping yourself safe is considered sexism now.

I'm not suggesting by the way you don't go out and have fun and go full MTGOW, that's not healthy for your social life. Just be very selective about who you let into your life, doubly so when it comes to sex.

The majority of the times I've seen girls go fucking batshit on a guy from their own version of events is when it's as you describe a one night stand or some short term fling where they don't really know each other at all. I think you're right to be paranoid in the era of MeToo about this sort of thing but at the same time you shouldn't let low grade thots ruin your chance at a decent social life.

Surround yourself with decent people and make sure you know they're decent people then that in turn will help you with your relationships. It's nice when I see stories on this sub from guys who have had friends or even women here have described how they stuck up for each other when some crazy psycho tried to go on a false accusation spree.

JRRtrolking · 2019-12-16T01:42:15+00:00

The reality is that it’s an extremely low probability of that happening. Most women are normal people just like you. If you want to minimize this risk just get to know a woman before you engage in sexual activity with her to make sure she’s not a crazy person.

blackwolf23511 · 2019-12-16T01:31:23+00:00

In all honesty I'd focus on your studies. I hate to be a negative person but look at it this way. The first year of college is the absolute toughest to adjust to. You have a whole new lvl of freedom and a good chunck of your classmates are going to flunk out due to excessive partying or not doing their work etc.

Focus on your studies and if your blue balls get too bad then find a JO buddy or go to an adult bookstore, let the guy on the otherside of the glory hole drain your college boy balls and then go back and relax.

I'm not saying hate women but I am saying that right now women are out to get what ever they can out of guys and think it's nothing more than a game to ruin their lives. Between flase raoe allegations, all women MUST be believed and a whole bunch of other horse shit If you wnat a career then from women stay clear.

If you wnat a woman you can trust find a submissive one on FET Life and use her as a sex toy. Trust me there are plenty of them out there.

throwlaca · 2019-12-16T07:21:20+00:00

Relax dude, it can happen even if you don't have any contact with women. I got falsely accused of rape by a girl because I got an harassment accusation. First, the accusation was false, second, harassment is not rape. The girl was just angry with me and said I was harassing her and following her. Somehow that became a rape accusation and I was a rapist.

So, rape is used very, very liberally nowadays, a girl might get angry at you because you bumped her car and she will call you a rapist. So, first, don't contact women. Don't talk to women more than necessary. Second, relax, rape accusations are flying everywhere nowadays. They are a tool to take power from men and give it to woman, most accused men never go to jail, but they lose jobs and opportunities. Coincidentally, those jobs are given to woman. So, don't get too scared, rape accusations are ultimately a power-shift tool.

AllegeddAssailantt · 2019-12-16T03:26:16+00:00

Awareness is the first step to security. Your understanding that you are not immune to a false rape allegation is valid. Proceed with caution.

2019-12-16T15:08:48+00:00

Do you need to drink alcohol?

cld8 · 2019-12-16T02:41:18+00:00

While it's definitely an issue that is discussed a lot, the risk is still quite small. Just take normal precautions and you'll most likely be fine.

IronJohnMRA · 2019-12-16T14:32:37+00:00

Date off campus.

AskingToFeminists · 2019-12-17T11:41:32+00:00

My advice? Avoid getting shitfaced drunk with stranger, and make sure to properly vet any potential sexual partner.

Try to hang out with a few good people, and to create strong bonds, rather than plenty of very shallow ones with anybody that comes your way.

If someone says they're feminist, be very, very alert, or just avoid them. Watch for red flags of BPDs and the like.

It's low proba ility, but so is getting mugged. Usually, avoiding dark alleys at night in sketchy neighborhood while dressed fancy is a good policy. What I'm suggesting here is of the same caliber.

JaggedGreen88 · 2019-12-16T00:12:35+00:00

That's probably not the best idea. While I'm sure your intentions are pure if that footage ever found it's way into the 5kight... well you'd be screwed.

2019-12-16T00:46:27+00:00

Dont drink and avoid women

Svenskbtch · 2019-12-16T10:07:24+00:00

After 9/11, so many people chose to drive instead of flying that mortality rates through vehicle accidents doubled - killing many more people than the attack itself. That is, of course, only one example of how irrationally we reacted to the threat of terror.

Same thing here. We should not let a threat like this overwhelm us - only to prod us in the direction of appropriate caution. The same kind of caution, by the way, that women should exercise to minimise the risk for sexual assault (where many live in fear disproportionate to the threat).

Perhaps the most important point is to get to know your dates well. I would say most women who make false or wrongful accusations suffer from some kind of personality disorder, if not downright sociopathy. If you pay attention, you should be able to catch some signs of this. It is not actually that hard, but I find many straight men going to great efforts to rationalise away such signs, especially if the woman is physically attractive.

Just ask yourself: is this a person that I can trust and that is worthy of my attention and commitment? That alone should radically cut your risks, which anyway are much smaller than many appear to think. The overwhelming majority of women are still sane, decent people. Just stay clear of the rest.

onions_cutting_ninja · 2019-12-16T16:29:56+00:00

Check out the post above yours. It has 0.003% of happening, meaning you're more likely to get stuck by lighting.

akarp42 · 2019-12-16T05:07:15+00:00

I'm sorry you're so concerned about this happening to you. However it is as irrational of a fear as me (a female) becoming a shut in because I'm afraid of being assaulted if I go out and drink and enjoy myself. There is always risk wherever you go, but assuming the worst and ill-intentions of everyone you meet will only hold you back. Just make sure consent is clear and avoid having sex with someone the first night you meet them while you're both drunk and I can almost guarantee that won't happen. People dont just go around falsely accusing men, just because you have heard a few cases in our fear-hungry media does not mean it just happens. Just be aware and make sure consent is clear, dont have sex while shit faced drunk with a stranger, and you'll be fine.

stayinginlovewithme · 2019-12-16T01:26:44+00:00

Hookers are almost risk free if you wrap it up.

Title	I’m terrified of being falsely accused of rape and/or sexual harassment
Author	Darth_Peroni
Upvotes	32
Comments	46
Date	December 16, 2019 12:10 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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