I'm a mom in an 11 year LTR/4 year marriage. I've let myself go over the past 5 years, especially since having a baby almost 2 years ago and being pregnant again now. My husband always says I'm beautiful as I am, but he does like it when I put some effort into my appearance. I stay at home and the only place I go is grocery shopping, or maybe a fun outing with my little family.

In my early twenties I was fit and stylish and liked the attention and looks from guys (I'm 26 now), and while I wouldn't mind experiencing that again, it's not something that motivates me because I'm happily married with a kid and then some. So it seems kind of silly. That means my motivation would have to be to appeal to my husband more, but since he doesn't seem to care much or complain about how I look (he also has a low SMV and is unmotivated at the moment to improve it) then I feel too content where I am, and I don't want to be content anymore!