I deleted my recent post regarding my relationship bc I was getting a lot of unwarranted, vitriolic messages from people who ignored necessary, nuanced details of my situation so I just took the whole thing down.

To the women on this subreddit who offered their genuine support/consolation, thank you so much. It will never go unappreciated.

I confronted my SO and he says he never actually wanted polyamory-that I'm 'more than enough' for him and am 'a handful and a half.' We had a pretty heated argument and he said those things to be spiteful in response to his own feelings of hurt, and I presented a one-sided view of things.

Nevertheless, I told him I am distancing myself from him for some time as it's not right to try to threaten basics about the core dynamic of our relationship as a knee-jerk reaction in a fleeting argument.

I'm not 100% sure what the future looks like, but I DO know that I also need to distance myself from TRP as well and know that I'll be thinking fondly of the support from the women in this community- and be confident that I am too indestructible & too aware to ever enter/stay in a bad relationship.

Thanks again, ladies Cheers Lea