Be humble

Lethn · 2019-07-09T09:46:50+00:00

That's rich considering the amount of lunatics there are who think I'm mistreating them and oppressing them simply for existing, you know that has to work both ways right?

Men-Are-Human · 2019-07-09T10:35:41+00:00

Okay. We should back down and kowtow to people who attack us? That is rich. We can be polite, but we have absolutely no reason to be bloody subservient to people who abuse us.

Tank-o-grad · 2019-07-09T10:42:19+00:00

If you don't want to come across as tone police/concern troll you'll need to expand on and explain your position. As it stands how are we responsible for some random woman feeling that our legitimate criticism of society and the way it treats men is a personal attack? The only way to avoid it would be to say nothing critical of society and so would achieve nothing...

2c165 · 2019-07-09T10:53:57+00:00

You don't get to tell me what to do after decades of treating me like crap because of how I look

iainmf · 2019-07-09T09:54:57+00:00

This post is essentially concern trolling and I considered removing it, but I think it is worth leaving some of these posts up to see where the discussion goes, so I have not removed it.

NeverTrustAVaJayJay · 2019-07-09T12:10:29+00:00

Caring about wether or not women agree with me?

Jeeez its been a long while since i did that.

Like really, this is the problem with your argument. Lots of us dont give a damn about wether your ickle feelings are hurt, and care even less about your opinions.

I bet you cant give me a single reason why i should care.

red_philosopher · 2019-07-09T16:16:54+00:00

No woman is going to agree with you if she inherently knows you feel like she is mistreating you. Be open-minded as you want them to be. Show, explain, teach not tell. - Woman

The problem with this statement, is the implicit assumption that MRAs inherently believe that women (implied all) are mistreating them. This is patently false and offensive.

Update to frustrated men in the comments.

You really could take some of your own advice and empathize with your opposition instead of intentionally aggravating them with insulting language.

(With generalisations and fullyheartedly me) When I have a feeling I analyze it. I contemplate why I am feeling it, before acting on it. Everyone has something to learn from each other. Women can not read men's mind, but they are usually adept at reading actions, tones, facial features.

Not sure what this is supposed to communicate other than "I like to think before I act," and "Women can't read minds, but they are good at interpreting body language." So what?

When you approach a "feminazi", know she expects you to fight with her because she is attention-seeking, hateful person which basis their facts around their gender.

This is confusing. This only makes sense if the "feminazi" in question is aware that she is this way:

She expects men to fight with her because she [knows she] is [an] attention-seeking, hateful person that bases her facts around her gender?

Approach people from their fact base.

So approach her like I really am the scum of the earth and deserve to be castrated and have my genitals mutilated without my consent because I'm a man. Okay. Got it. What fact base? There's almost nothing they espouse that hasn't been disproven, discredited, debunked, or otherwise proven false. What fact base?

Have set views, which you are open to discuss and change if solid evidence arises.

I'm all for solid evidence. If feminists ever had any solid evidence, I'd be a feminist. But they don't. They construct lies out of questionable, female-funded and gynocentric studies that later get disproven only to be repeated ad nauseum.

If you find a particular person that has a view you disagree with communicate without judgement.

Coming from a feminist who attempted to blame an abuse victim, and generalized the entire MRM via stereotype in the first sentence of their post, this is pretty fucking rich.

bufedad · 2019-07-09T12:05:58+00:00

Yeah, don't make her feel like she's mistreating you. Acknowledge that you hurt her hands while she was hitting you and that's why you deserve to to jail.

NeverTrustAVaJayJay · 2019-07-09T09:52:46+00:00

What a bunch of horse cock. Why is this here and not on 2xfemenazi?

NeverTrustAVaJayJay · 2019-07-09T11:00:26+00:00

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PurveyorofToxicWaste · 2019-07-09T12:51:23+00:00

I prefer not being told what to do “bro.”

Eastuss · 2019-07-09T12:51:50+00:00

I try to understand what you mean but I just can't.

Also seems like you don't understand what it means to deal with someone's feelings, you can't explain, show, teach, it's a feeling, it's not a conscious thought they've been having.

Title	Be humble
Author	ibettershutupagain
Upvotes	0
Comments	76
Date	July 9, 2019 9:41 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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