Dealing w/ rejection/fear

DadOnDabs · 2017-03-26T04:32:28+00:00

There's 3 billion more.

lietruth · 2017-03-26T04:27:35+00:00

Too broad of a question.

Ask a shitty question, get shitty answers.

It all depends on what area of your life and what context.

i4mn30 · 2017-03-26T06:54:53+00:00

Even the good answers won't help you, if you are bound to chicken out at the last moment.

I pushed myself into doing cold approaches regardless of the outcome about 2 years ago. And although I haven't had good results, because various reasons and circumstances and social culture where I live, I'd tell you this: You just fucking go ahead and do this, treat it as an experience.

At most you only get rejected, at best you land a date. Rejection can be anything from an insulting scream to a simple rude/polite "NO". Doesn't matter, the only point a rejection makes is - that the other person is not interested in you.. Means you go on to the next.. One more chick struck off the list.

Just put yourself out there somehow. Maybe take a couple of swigs of whiskey if you get nervous, but I'd say then that you're not man enough, and that's not the TRP way.

Title	Dealing w/ rejection/fear
Author	starwars765
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	March 26, 2017 4:24 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/61jvei/dealing_w_rejectionfear/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/dealing-w-rejectionfear.88364 https://theredarchive.com/post/88364

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