I don't really know how to put this problem in words so I'll just use examples to the best of my ability. Is the idea of gender meant to destroy differences between 👬 and 👭 and essentially the same? If I were to ask someone what a man or a woman is, could they give me a concrete answer? The reason I say this is because I think the idea of gender is creating more problems then answers. For example, birth control is a women's issue because of the fact that women have uteruses. However if a transman has a uterus, than we effectively have a situation that has nullifies the dynamic that birth control is a women's issue. I say this because I keep hearing things like you don't need 2x chromosomes to be a woman, you don't need a vagina, ect. But this seems to defeat the idea of what a woman and man may be, and essentially makes them interchangeable. But this conclusion seems false, take the school system for example, we know that boys do worst than girls in school, the reason being is because boys learn differently than girls. But if boys and girls have no defining characteristics and become interchangeable, than there should be no reason for them to fall behind. This is really rambly and I'm open to being wrong, but if anyone can give me a reason as to why gender lead to these conclusions I'm open to listen.