I own an Android phone with a rooted rom that allows flashlight to be used as notification indicator. I set it up only for wake-up alarm.
Yesterday morning I was standing and looking at my phone in the subway and the alarm went off. I realized I snoozed it instead of dismissing it as I woke up. I turned it off immediately.
Then I saw a girl with a disgusted face staring in front of me. Fuck.
She thought I was taking pictures of her and called for help, everyone thought I'm a sick pervert, and called the metro cops at the next station.
I explained to the cops and showed how my phone's notification works, and they let me go. But the girl didn't buy it at all. I apologized anyways but she left as she gave another disgusted face at me without a word.
Some of the people at the scene are commuters whom I regularly see every morning. Now I'm thinking that I'm gonna be marked as a creep forever. And even if I do find each of them and explain, I might look like I'm desperately making excuses. I'm fucked both ways. Fuck.
Blonde girl with a red jacket and a brown messenger bag in downtown LA, if you are a redditor and see this, I'm sorry again and please put me out of this misery.
TL;DR Had flashlight notification for wake-up alarm, it went off in the subway, a girl in front of me called cops on me thinking I was taking pictures of her.
[–]BittyMitty 13 points14 points15 points (2 children) | Copy Link
You must understand, apologizing is admitting to the crime.
[–]Lethn 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, he should have told her to go away, I would have seriously considered suing her as well for falsely accusing me if she did that to me. When people do that even after you've explained everything it's not about whether you did anything wrong, it's a power play, she's not a victim of anything in the slightest and she in fact took advantage of the situation.
[–]xNOM 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. Never apologize for this shit.
[–]5th_Law_of_Robotics 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Toxic femininity. It's a dangerous thing for men when coupled with all the power women wield in society and all the accountability they don't have.
[–]rationalthought314 12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl makes a mistake and she still is disgusted at the guy. No amount of evidence or logic is going to change her mind nor the realization she wasted police time and made this guy look like a creep. You just can't win.
[–]bearinfoxhole 17 points18 points19 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Women these days flatter themselves too much (even land whales), as they are some heavily creatures and everyone out there is after them.
[–]Lethn 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I blame feminism for that one for certain, activists have gone out of their way to convince women in university men are all out to get them.
[–]boringcarpets 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
So much. Once I was at a gig with my now ex, she's on one side of me, asks who it is that's playing, I don't know, so I turn to ask the nearest person on the other side of me, I don't even get to finish the sentence and she's saying "I'm not interested". Even telling her my gf was right there she wasn't exactly apologetic. The sheer ego and narcissism of these nomarks is astounding
[–]perplexedm 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
It is this kind of pansy pandering to women which create women such such sickly attitude. Let him learn his lesson, no amount of saying sorry is going to make the situation better. What such women and men actually need is a psychiatrist.
[–]gixxer 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
How are the cops involved at all? It’s legal to take pictures in public.
[–]Trunk-Monkey 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know about other countries, but if you're in the U.S. then she (and the cops) can fuck right off... Members of the public have a very limited scope of privacy rights when they are in public places. Basically, anyone can be photographed without their consent except when they have secluded themselves in places where they have a reasonable expectation of privacy such as dressing rooms, rest-rooms, medical facilities, and inside their homes.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Never apologize.
Also you have no reasonable expectation of privacy in public.