How to be Ambitious?

ppzhao · 2017-04-21T22:04:00+00:00

Have a goal in mind. Some people are motivated "just be better than yesterday". You seem like the type who's only willing to be motivated if you get something out of it.

Example: "If I can make $$$, I can get my own apartment and it would be easier for me to fck women"

Example 2: "If I lose XXX pounds and gain more muscle, women will be more receptive to my game"

Bad examples, all involve getting laid, but you get my point.

JuanLesPins · 2017-04-21T22:02:56+00:00

Do you have a goal you want to reach? Do you know what you want?

When you work towards a goal, you make it grow in you with the investment you make. And if you start seeing some results it will boost you even more to work harder. It's like a vicious circle where your hard working feeds the will to do more towards something.

The initial ambition to do something I think is very personal. It's like a personal taste. If you know what you want then the ambition will come from this will to have what you want.

Title	How to be Ambitious?
Author	Respire19
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	April 21, 2017 9:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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