Why am I going through another anger phase

Pitchfork51 · 2017-04-23T06:44:00+00:00

Most likely because you are a little bitch with oneitis.

nebder · 2017-04-23T12:54:14+00:00

Unsure what you're looking for here. Looks like you want to vent and externalize your own mistakes. Not owning your actions/choices is a female mindset. You are a man.

You've over invested in a woman. She realizes that and uses the power you've given her against you. I agree that sucks, but you made the choices that led there. I'd suggest treating her the same way you're treating the girls that are obsessed with you.

You've grown past your old friends. It's time to start making new friends since they do not sincerely appreciate your growth. True friends want the best life for you unconditionally. True friends are rare, so maintain and grow that relationship when you find one. Everyone else is replaceable if there's not a two way value exchange in the relationship. That is harsh but you have so many days on this earth. Don't waste or ruin them with bad relationships.

Morals are layered on top of human biological nature. My personal morals include don't knowingly have sex with a married woman. That means I see a hot married woman and want to fuck her, and then use my rational thought to prevent myself from acting on that desire. To the extreme point, we've all had thoughts of murder at some point in our life, but we don't go around wasting fools for petty reasons. Morals stop us from acting on base desires that are counterproductive to society as a whole.

Welcome to reality man.

JustLookingAroundman · 2017-04-23T08:06:19+00:00

I am not against TRP, however I am not entirely supportive of it either. Many points and comments from the community ARE very valid, but that doesn't mean take EVERYTHING at face value. Take it with a grain of salt. Some of the content here is really useful, but in contrast some are quite extreme. You need to distinguish the two.

You're angry because you're forcing yourself to distort your view of women. You're forcing yourself to apply these views that conflict with your own. Many of these points on women are GENERALIZATIONS. Yes, generalizations are what they are. It's the same as saying "so and so is this race, therefore they are going to be a certain way, do a certain thing, speak with a certain accent, etc". It's great to know and learn about social interactions, but not everything always holds true. How can you be so certain there is no morality in women and men? How can you be so sure because so and so does this they are definitely this?

Learn and digest information regarding how women and men in society function. It's great information to have and use it to protect yourself. But don't rely on this method entirely to understand and meet a person. Use your heart. There is nothing wrong with being angry, hung up on a oneitis, etc. it's not always about lifting, sleeping with other women, or gaming other girls to fix your previous problems. Maybe there's something more to your anger, but you're directing it towards women because of TRP influence.

Your gut always knows what's wrong. Trust yourself on how you feel. Sit down and actually take a deeper look at yourself to figure out what's really bothering you at this point.

MistaFANG · 2017-04-23T15:09:13+00:00

Sounds like you never left the anger phase to begin with.

Own the process. It's a journey, it will take time.

moresmarterthanyou · 2017-04-23T07:36:48+00:00

I thought i was going to downvote this but i kind of associate with it...i feel you, no ideas here

SLMC1 · 2017-04-23T08:58:20+00:00

Your whiny attitude is probably the source of all your "problems." Are you literally complaining that life isn't fair? I don't get it. Grow the fuck up, man the fuck up, take control over your life and stop pouting. God, this is disgusting to look at.

Title	Why am I going through another anger phase
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	16
Comments	14
Date	April 23, 2017 5:50 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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