Are you ok with me hanging out with guys?

RedWinter88 · 2017-04-25T21:43:13+00:00

Sure... because you're hanging out with girls. Why would you want to even LTR a girl who goes to hang out with guys?

walawalawa · 2017-04-26T00:12:22+00:00

My plate said "All my friends are guys, it's been a problem..."

She spun these jealousy plotlines pushing for exclusivity on one hand and then acting out with friends of mine on the other.

Of course it ended...badly with her acting out and me ghosting her.

She's pushing for some type of jealous reaction. But let's be real here. If a girl is serious about you and decent on any level, they wouldn't do this regardless of whether they're a "plate" or an LTR.

This is really an attention-seeking mechanism and a test of your resolve.

It's no-win. You say "who cares..." and she bangs other dudes.

You say: "No way" she sees you as having a jealous streak and uses that.

What I did...blew up, threatened to leave....then demoted the girl to low-end plate for fucking only.

I still ended up getting riled up all the time anyway and had to leave when her craziness got to be too much.

Best is to downgrade her, see less of her and find a plate with more class.

TRPTosser · 2017-04-25T21:41:49+00:00

I'd start talking about my record collection.

[deleted] · 2017-04-26T13:37:45+00:00

Think I read this somewhere here to a similar question.

If it's an LTR I would simply say "MY GIRL doesn't hang out with other guys."

If it's just a plate I would reply indifferently or jokingly making a crack at her promiscuity or something.

[deleted] · 2017-04-26T01:26:14+00:00

A LTR wants to hang out alone with another guy? Next.

[deleted] · 2017-04-26T06:49:01+00:00

Everyone here is jumping the gun, but what if they are just her orbiters?

rebuildingMyself · 2017-04-26T23:12:34+00:00

Plate: Do what you like, I'm not your daddy

LTR: No

7Fig · 2017-04-25T22:20:46+00:00

Delete, block, ghost

Title	Are you ok with me hanging out with guys?
Author	nbasports825
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	April 25, 2017 9:40 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/67jqem/are_you_ok_with_me_hanging_out_with_guys/
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